Tolerance is a luxury item on the invisible shelves of the soul. Everything, or almost everything, is now disposable. If you’re broke, buy another one. Scratch, choose another, Combined, separate. It’s sad to have such a fragile reality, especially when it comes to relationships and love.
It’s a big booklet anyway, but if we make a little effort, we’ll come to understand the other side of the fact version, sometimes we live insisting on being right, and worse, we want this reason to be recognized. and so we end up feeding the ego, so the food chain of vanity creates spaces in us so deep that the ego has an active voice, loneliness becomes a companion and tolerance packs its bags and leaves forever.
- There are so many relationships that have so many futures.
- But that end with lack of hearing.
- Lack of understanding.
- Lack of feeling of the other.
- Like appliances.
- Lifetime relationships are becoming rarer.
Zero tolerance transforms the way we live a life together, there is no longer that moment of reflection between the members of a relationship, everything revolves around the end, perhaps thinking that one day it would end anyway, we end without waiting for the facts. Get out there and we rush to finish what could be a long and happy story.
When I think of tolerance, I want to clarify that I use this word far from being understood as a way to nullify myself for the benefit of the other, that is not what I mean, but I believe that tolerance is closely related to empathy and these two attitudes complement each other and that, finally, they complete the relationship, turning coexistence into a possibility of the future.
There’s been a lot of talk about empathy, I admit I didn’t know, and I even thought the word was negative, but the sense of empathy is the most beautiful I’ve ever seen.
Empathy is the act of putting yourself in each other’s place, feeling what the other person feels and evaluating before acting, before saying something in the middle of an argument, is to think as if the situation is with you and, from there, to take appropriate action. It is not easy, especially in the haste we live, but when you can practice, you understand life, its unselling and its joys much better.
It takes a big dose of love to practice empathy, because in the heat of the moment, all we want is reason!It’s always good to do something for each other, there’s always a return, it always goes back to what you do. to the world Spread love, spread good, live empathy!
Look for solutions before throwing away, try to repair what hasn’t completely disappeared, buy new batteries, change the engine, heat up a room that may need some heat to stay alive.
Love takes a lot and sometimes it is not exactly what you would expect to find in someone, there are defects that are unbearable and that stand out in the face of all qualities, but still try a little more.
Review what really happened, analyze all the facts and do it for yourself. Once you’ve overcome and practiced tolerance, you’ll understand that it’s really worth taking one step further to make everything work better.
Don’t give up at first and don’t always want to be right. Comment, but listen, the milk boils, spills and you stay there, between cleaning the stove or eating your hot milk, so don’t wait for it to happen. Spill Practice empathy. Develop tolerance. Be happy with who you chose.
If, finally, the refrigerator burns, turn it into a closet, if the TV stops working and does not find pieces to repair, turn it into a vase of flowers, if the relationship cools down, it moves by discussions, fights, disinterest, a new way of seeing the love you have built, but if after all you really understand that this relationship does not work for you , start looking for a relationship with you.
Know yourself before you give your heart to someone else, after all ending relationships is so exhausting and bring so much pain and suffering Be more confident in the human being, believe in love and make an appointment every day with your happiness!Do every step, it’s really worth it.
June marks the end of one semester and the entry of another is a new winter year. It’s always good to have a list in hand, maybe it will become a habit, sometimes it can become a goal or it may never happen, but the list guide us and somehow induce our mind, pushing the desire to make what is written on this paper come true, so take advantage of this list of 50 purposes for life and see what you want to do and what you can already start doing step forward to seek your happiness!
A list of 50 lifetime resolutions. 1. Smile more 2. Kiss affectionately and without haste at least one person a day. 3. Rejoice as you walk. 4. Listen to the stories of the elderly, they have a wonderful experience and you can gain a lot by listening to them. 5. Say a prayer when you wake up. 6. When you feel like crying, don’t save anything, turn it off. 7. Have a dream, a goal, an ideal, something to prove. 8. Read a good book. 9. Take your mom to the movies. 10. Take your grandmother to the circus. 11. Take a trip anywhere. 12. Make up a word. 13. Plant or adopt a tree and take care of it. 14. Tell a joke; If no one laughs, okay, laugh alone. 15. Watch a good movie. 16. Dance. 17. Sing a song when you are sad, preferably karaoke. 18. Tell someone you trust about your dreams. 19. Trust God. 20. Place an order. 21. Sometimes you forward the email chain, it can work, you never know. 22. Take a Saturday afternoon to walk with you. 23. Sunbathing, with sunscreen, of course. 24. Play with the children. 25. Buy a package of sweets and distribute it to the children on your street, in your building, in your family? 26. Believe in universal love. 27. Wish people peace. 28. Smile at the person next to you and ask how they are doing. 29. Practice kindness in traffic, online at the bank, at the supermarket. 30. Always remember those phrases that make your life easier: “Please? Thank you? How are you? 31. Eat ice cream when the heat is unbearable 32. Visit your parents, grandparents, friends 33. Always look at the other side of the story, stand on the other side 34. Take a rain shower 35. Convert moments, go in peace, Hate in love, living death, tears in smiles? 36. Listen to music that makes you feel good. 37. Go to an exhibition. 38. Go to the theater. 39. Avoid fried foods and sweets, but take a long time, give yourself a fried beeeemmmm 40. Take some time to think about your loved one 41. Thank God for all that you have 42. Believe in your power 43. Every now and then when, your friends drink with her 44. Know and learn a new language 45. Follow the advice of my godmother, the three G’s: earn, save, spend. that is, your money in savings. 46. Ask for help, we don’t have to be strong all the time or know everything. 47. Take photos without posing. 48. Overcome your fears. 49. Get your nails done every week and cut your hair at least every 6 months. 50. Every now and then look at the night sky and realize how small your problems are compared to the size of the universe. You can do anything when you have God with you, believe me. It works wonders in our lives.