There are days when we wake up and wonder what the meaning of being in a relationship with a person who does not love or respect us is, why we work every day in a role that does not fall in love with us, or why in general we do not have the life we had dreamed of.
All these questions lead us to reflect on a series of choices we have made throughout our lives that may not have been our choices, or were paths we choose out of fear, for lack of courage to live our own dreams. number of questions we can ask ourselves to make sense of our lives and whether we are living what we want. Next, we list 10.
“Only if I feel worthy to be who I am can I accept myself, can I be genuine, can I be honest?-Jorge Bucay-
Think for a moment: what would your life be like in 5 years, do you want to stay in the situation you are in?, maybe the idea of this future will make you happy and you don’t want to change anything, or maybe the idea. of that future is something you don’t want to live in. Our exercise should be to reflect on whether the life we lead today leads us to the ideal of the dream life we want.
Fear paralyzes us, and when it comes to leaving your comfort zone, we invent any excuse to complain without doing anything to seek solutions and change what bothers us. Think about what you’d do if you weren’t afraid, what would you do?Do you dare to see the situation you’d like to live in?How are you feeling?
“The really important thing is to fight to live life, suffer and enjoy it, lose with dignity and dare again. Life is wonderful if you’re not afraid. ? -Charlie Chaplin-
Sometimes we see all our flaws, but we are not able to appreciate our talents. What are your passions? And the most important question: do you do that?These questions will make you think about what stands out most and why you don’t do what you love most.
Think for a moment about what’s most important in your life, what makes you really happy, and think about whether that something is in your life or not, maybe it’s time to change something or change everything.
Each of us has a childhood dream that we imagined come true as adults, think about what you dreamed of doing when you were little and what happened so as not to live that dream right now. Also, you can think about what you might do to get closer to your childhood dream.
We tend to focus on things or people that we have to give up, because they don’t bring us anything good, because they hurt us or because it’s time to evolve and change. It is important to learn to let go; It will certainly hurt, but over time you will realize that sometimes you have to allow things or people to leave for a new air to enter your life.
If you stop thinking about your life, you may realize that you live and choose what makes others happy, not what makes you happy, it is not about satisfying others, but about being happy, of In fact, people who love you want to see you happy, but you have to distinguish between what they think makes you happy and what makes you really happy.
The opinion of others always appears when we think of changing something in our lives, but imagine that no one will judge you What would you change in your life?Like the fear of what will happen if it changes, we are also afraid of what others will say.
We often complain about work, the boss, the schedules, our peers, but we do nothing to change that out of fear or the opinions of others, we settle for, without daring to take risks and live life to the fullest.
We wast a lot of time on social media, mobile phones or television, but ask yourself if you would if you only had a month to live. Definitely not; Surely you will dedicate yourself to enjoy every second of the people you love, the places you love, every little detail that makes you happy And why not start now?
“I felt a huge desire to live again when I discovered that the meaning of my life was what I wanted to give you. -Paulo Coelho-