Without love it hurts, does the soul and the heart hurt, do all our illusions end like a vase falling to the ground and breaking into a thousand pieces?Or like the same vase that fell several times and can still be repaired, but now it is no longer possible to save. The couple are no longer in love.
We don’t look at each other anymore, we don’t love each other anymore. We’ve lost our complicity and everything we’ve built together doesn’t make sense, but why?How do we get away and don’t even notice it?
Time, routine, differences, distance . . . ended up separating us
“Lack of love is part of life. “
Each couple is different and there are a thousand reasons why this love that joined two people is over, many times we don’t want to see what’s going on and we give ourselves a thousand opportunities, yet everything has a limit and you end up getting tired.
We can no longer endure so many struggles and differences, the distance has been unbearable or we spend so much time together that we neglect our love; we forgot to water it as the most beautiful of our flowers.
Before, you were eager to wait for the meeting to talk about your life, to talk, you were happy and no one could replace you. However, now he no longer wants to see him and the person has become indifferent.
You don’t have sexual fantasies about your partner anymore, it doesn’t even go through your head. You can even have sexual fantasies with other people. Even if you’re not unfaithful out of respect, your spirit betrays you.
There is no longer passionate affection such as an unexpected kiss, a hug, a gift, the affection that can manifest itself in many ways has disappeared, you no longer want to kiss, caress or embrace.
The flame went out, the affection ended and the feelings cooled
He can’t stand your caress or a kiss, do you avoid it and when your partner approaches you reject it, you respond with contempt or indifference?, this is one of the clearest signs that you’re not in love.
They say that the face is the mirror of the soul, and without you nodding your sadness and discomfort when you are with that person are reflected in your face, but remember that this feeling is yours, take responsibility for your emotions.
You used to worry about how you were at work, whether you were happy or sad, if you were dating friends, and now?Sometimes you don’t even remember him. You’re so immersed in your thoughts that there’s no more room for your partner.
Before, you loved everything: your voice, your gestures, your physique, your appearance, how did you feel about others?Now the enchantment is over and sometimes those same things bother you.
When someone is in love, they have no eyes for anyone else; when he no longer feels anything, he starts looking at others.
There are colleagues, friends you start looking at differently; a world of possibilities opens up around you.
You don’t talk anymore, and when you do, it’s just fights and censorship over things from the past, there’s only resentment.
The distance is physical and mental, you feel more and more distant from that person and you have less and less time to share with your partner.