We’ve all been through that and it’s never easy. Am I talking about the end of a relationship, when you left. It will make you feel a thousand complicated emotions, but there are some things you shouldn’t do, even if it’s hard to avoid them.
? Thinking it was your fault. A relationship consists of two people who love each other and respect each other. When one of us moves in a different direction than the one that brought them together at first, no one is solely responsible for what happened.
- ? Feel that you have been abandoned.
- The relationship ended for both of you.
- Surely you have also sent signals of discontent.
- You have gotten used to the other person and you do not want a new routine.
- Because the one you have is very comfortable.
? Think about your life with him or her. You need to rearrange your priorities, your schedules and start over. Don’t read past conversations, and nothing to monitor your ex’s social media.
? Eliminate memories. I don’t think it’s necessary to eliminate anything to do with it, just leave it there. Life will tell you when to look at all this (photos, letters, gifts) and what to do with it, but don’t do anything now that you’re hurt. Wait a minute and you might want to keep some things. Maybe you can’t get memories out of your mind, but material things that remind them.
? Watch romantic movies, please!It’s like digging your own grave. Don’t worry, you’ve got enough to rebuild every day and continue your activities. Try to create new routines. It’s not worth incorporating from watching romantic movies, you’re also expensive, you’ve just taken different paths and yes, there’s the perfect man for you.
? Expect to find him. You shouldn’t go around places you’ve always been, or make an appointment with friends at your favorite café. Don’t do these things. Don’t imagine these situations either. ” What if I saw him?Or if I found him. ” It’s not going to happen naturally and it won’t be healthy.
? If a meeting takes place, act naturally. It’s better to be natural. You know each other, you’ve had a relationship. He knows when you’re acting naturally and that’s how you got it, so if you expect to go back to him, you’d better let things happen.
? Your profile picture. It’s an important issue, if in the photo you were with it you will have to change it, it doesn’t have to be the day after the end, otherwise you will feel very worried. Certainly, the first few days you won’t be in a good mood, wait for the moment. One day you will go home, walking on a beautiful sunny day, will you feel comfortable and?Selfie! It’s time. With a cheerful but not false expression, change your profile and status.
? Don’t change your look every day trying to get everyone’s attention or your own, try to get back to what you were. Wear this outfit that you liked so much and that he suggested not to wear anymore. (We’ve all been through something like this. We stop using so many colors because he’s so sober. Or less neckline because he didn’t like being, looked so much at you. )
Finally, you’re yourself again. Look for your real look, something that reflects your current state and where you want to go.
? Spread the pain. It is a fact that will hurt, it is normal to feel pain and, if not, the person would not have been important in your life, if you feel anxious and sad he cries. It is important to release everything that has left this rupture to start over without negative loads, but do not prolong too much these moments. Better a lot of intensity and a few days.
? Act by focusing on the other person. Not anymore, don’t expect me to call you. If you look at the phone, let it be to see the time, but not to see if it sent anything. Don’t start the gym or diet to make yourself attractive to him. It’s great that you do these things, but because you need them, just for that. Now you’re your own priority.
If a relationship doesn’t work, it’s best to leave the road clear, as this will give you the opportunity to live your life differently and meet new people.