Don’t let your happiness depend on others. You have to learn to have fun alone or together, have good self-esteem, self-love and own your own life.
Love and dependence are incompatible. When this happens, even if the relationship continues, love weakens.
We need to change the need for preference, which is much healthier
We can love and even worship our partner, but at the same time maintain high self-esteem and cultivate personal growth and development.
It is difficult to understand, but do not confuse love with passion, in love there is no total anguish or abandonment, submission or sacrifice.
Love is not obsessive. Love is just, it is moderate, it is desire, friendship, care and balance, in love there is no fear, so it is worth the change, here are 25 phrases that demonstrate the importance of protecting our emotional independence.
1- There is not enough love capable of filling the void of a person who does not love himself.
2- I don’t need you, I chose you. (Walter Riso)
3- If you cannot love me as I deserve, there must be someone who can love me as I am.
4- I love you because I love you, because I have chosen you and I love to be by your side; not because you are indispensable to my happiness (Walter Riso)
5- Don’t be a slave to your emotional past, but live the present with emotion.
6- They made us believe that each of us is half orange, and that life only makes sense when we find the other half, we have not been told that we were born whole and that no one should be responsible for completing what we are missing (John Lenon)
7- They made us believe in a formula called “Two in One”: two people thinking and acting in the same way was what worked. This has a name: cancellation. Only people with their own personality can have a healthy relationship (John Lenon).
8- I have nothing to prove to anyone, just myself
9- Love is freedom and growth, rather than possession and limitation.
10- In order to love someone, love yourself.
11- Letting the person you love live freely is the greatest proof of love.
12- There is no incompatibility between loving the other and loving oneself.
13- I am aware that it is we who invent and reinvent the love we live.
14- You cannot count on anyone to be happy; no relationship will bring peace you don’t have in you.
15- Do not depend on anyone in this world, for even your own shadow leaves you in the dark.
16- If you are happy to give affection, check your self-esteem
17- When I really loved myself, I realized that I was in the right place, at the right time and at the right time, and then I was able to relax. Today I know he has a name for himself.
18- When I really loved myself, I began to get rid of everything that was unhealthy: people, situations and everything that depressed me. At first, my reason called it a selfish attitude, today he calls it self-love.
19- Relying on the person you love is a way to sink into life, an act of psychological self-mutilation where self-love, self-esteem and its essence are offered irrationally.
20- If you do not value yourself, you will probably find someone who does not recognize your worth.
21- Abandon the habit of asking for the approval of others and be your biggest “fan”.
22- Learn that what is important is not what you have, but what it is worth.
23- Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong adventure (Oscar Wilde)
24- No one is responsible for each other’s happiness. It’s your choice You can choose between being a happy, optimistic person or a sad, negative person.
25- Life does not accept representatives. No one can learn and grow for you, no one can do for you what you need to do for yourself (Jorge Bucay)
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