It is very common to criticize certain phases of our lives, to try to erase them from our history and, as much as we think about what happened, we only find bitter memories: failures, mistakes and helplessness. Complicated situations we face too soon, missed opportunities, love that we can’t identify and live.
Learning and being responsible for the choices we make makes us free to face life, it all starts with accepting who we are and why we act in a certain way, but there are many people in our culture who constantly push us to question our choices, making us believe that we are always wrong or that “we are not good enough. “
- When this happens.
- We can become victims of our own negative beliefs that we create and nur feed throughout life.
- Thoughts are like rain.
- They are experts in finding flaws in our self-esteem that weaken us; to deny themselves.
Many times we live the life “Cooking on a low heat”, (sometimes too strong), with many ingredients that we gradually put in our backpack, in our stove, as we like. If you want to live well, you have to throw away some Ingredients
What good is repentance if it does not erase anything that happened?The best regret is simply to change.
-José Saramago-
It is very common to confuse self-love and be happy with an egocentric or selfish personality. Some people may try to make you feel less than you really are, but never forget that you have every reason to be proud of yourself.
When we talk about love, respect and admiration for ourselves, we are not hurting anyone, but we are contributing to our personal development. Let repentance go, learn to live fully and without connection to the past. Live the present respecting the moment and looking for tools that can help you in your personal development.
How many times have we been told that?Taking the initiative leads us to act and take the first step, while others keep thinking. Go ahead, make a smart decision, or the others will decide for you.
Remember that there is nothing wrong with believing and taking the first step, because there is no experience more liberating than not relying on others to act and get what you want, if you want something fight for it and follow the path that takes you. Understanding that making mistakes and asking for forgiveness is as natural as doing things right and celebrating.
We generally prefer the comfort of the familiar and avoid the unknown, so we are thinking too much about what can happen to us and what is really best for us, we act in the same way in relationships and with the people we love: we generate many expectations about how they will act to protect themselves.
Many times these prejudices do not happen as expected and we begin to think negatively, to feel bad about the situation generated or to believe that we have failed among ourselves, remember that this is a problem for those who generated these expectations, not for the other. Person. The most important thing is to take care of what we expect from ourselves and no one else.
No matter the motivation, even to be proud of yourself, to meet the expectations you have generated or not to disappoint those you love, always decide with your heart, that way, even if you later regret it, the wails will not. Being so bitter they will come with a sweet and mischievous smile for the adventure you have experienced.
Life is always the only and most extraordinary adventure in which you are a special guest and have received many resources to live, with a slow or strong fire, but with an always wonderful existence.
“In twenty years, you’ll regret more the things you didn’t do than the things you did. So get rid of the ties, stay away from the safe harbor and catch the wind in your sails. Explore, Dream, Find Him. “?.
-Mark Twain-