Are there loves meant not to be? To begin with and end, they are like summer storms full of intense emotions, a refreshing rain that relieves intense heat, an unsatisfied thirst, but when the clouds fade, far from leaving moisture in a field where nature can flourish, a barren and cracked field opens up, where nothing will grow for a long time.
There are loves that pass like a gentle wind, others end up in a peaceful and loving distance, by mutual agreement, but there are some that leave painful voids that hurt us inside and change us.
- Let’s talk about that today.
- Shall we see them? That emotional relationships can leave us in the form of sequels.
- And what is worth considering to make us think.
Do we read and listen often? There is no better teacher than pain, there is no better learning than life pain at some point in our lives, so that we can move forward more safely knowing what life is, understanding people a little better.
And, in fact, we agree. However, there is one aspect that we must emphasize, not everyone acquires “positive learning”, not everyone can understand it that way. After an end, a lag, it takes a while to be able to look up safely, we have to go through a duel, an internal process where “it is reconstructed from within”.
What happens in these cases? Far from being fortified, we left with suites. When someone hurts us we learn to wear armor, when we are lying we learn to be cautious, when we cut the wings of our personal growth, we avoid opening ourselves to others. .
So can we learn with that love that cannot be eternal?Of course it is, but it is not always a positive learning, so we have to be very attentive to how we are going, our reality.
Don’t get carried away by these negative cognitions, always be resistant to opening doors to new opportunities.
To lose innocence is to lose some of that sincere and prejudiceless illusion with others, with new relationships that can appear with fullness and emotion. After an emotional failure and the loss of a love in which we had so much hope, a part of us will. age desperately.
Few things can be more desperate than letting our interior age, leaving fragments in the heart, cracks and arid lands where nothing grows, this is where, from now on, it will wander a dense bitterness, where it will be very difficult to receive. love again with the illusion of the past.
It is good to be careful and careful, of that there is no doubt, but if we completely lose our innocence, we will let our “inner child” escape, and with his spontaneity, something so fresh and innate, where relationships coexist. more intensity.
The loves that could never be eternal are empty, shapeless, full of lost dreams and disappointments, for a lost but constant time, remembered and evoked. It is possible to recover or even initiate new relationships and life projects.
Happiness always comes back with wonderful second parts that we all deserve to enjoy, but there is something that hides every day of our lives in a corner of our hearts and our memories, and that we call “empty”. Because they are like those paths that we have chosen, believing that we would carry out several projects that we dream of, so that in the end we have no choice but to make a change of meaning, both drastic and painful.
And in our brains, this impossible path will always be part of us and who we are, it’s like having two parallel lives, the real one and the memories that we can’t erase, but which, in essence, are part of who we are. .
The voids will always be and, as such, we must accept them. It is these wounds that do not heal, but with which we must learn to live, integrate and accept them, but prevent them from becoming black holes.
Leave them empty where a gentle and fragrant wind emerges that is remembered from time to time, but only for a few seconds, and then move on to the here and now, where, without a doubt, is your true happiness.