Have you noticed that as we mature, the list of friends decreases?Well, don’t worry, it’s normal and healthy.
It is good that you understand that it is not because you are antisocial or a bad friend, this experience is given because our priorities and requirements change and vary with maturity, perhaps for lack of time you would prefer to invest it in people who really interest you and contribute to your life through life learning or something positive.
- We’ll talk about the five guys from Bad Friends? So you can identify if you have one in your life.
- If that’s the case.
- It may not bring you much emotional discomfort now.
- But believe me: over time you’ll end up cutting the relationship.
? Which is always better than you. The friend who never congratulates you or rejoices in you. Can you go through stunning and very motivating situations or events: find work, be able to buy your own home, be super happy with your partner?you will always have something to say that will be more amazing or better than your experience.
They are also characterized by not listening to your concerns. It doesn’t matter what you are going through or what you are going through; his life will be much worse than yours in any situation. This type of friend comes from a competitive and insecure nature, so being around you doesn’t make you feel good.
A true friend is always satisfied with your accomplishments and will listen to your concerns with empathy, this will help you improve and grow as much as possible.
? Which is always a problem. No matter how wonderful your life, relationships and financial situation are, this person will always be listless and down at any time. He’s kind of a friend who feels sad, complains all the time and hurts him. Your whole life is a tragedy.
These are negative people who will not give you credit if you say they are exaggerating. Your social modus operandi will consist of constantly creating fights in which the other person reaffirms how much you care about them.
We already have enough drama in each of our personal lives that we need to have a person by our side who constantly makes us feel bad. We will only gain even more stress.
? Which always makes you feel guilty. This friend refuses to grow up and have his own life, which makes you feel bad about not wanting to get into a situation that requires personal commitment, even if you don’t want it or are not comfortable.
Just because your friend doesn’t have a personal life doesn’t mean you don’t have the right to afford to live your own.
Don’t feel guilty. Anyone who doesn’t want to understand your personal needs doesn’t understand you, and this barrier can lead to long-term emotional conflict.
? The one who never has money. It is good to note that this person should not be confused with the friend who works hard and that due to personal/family problems may not have a good financial situation.
Even if you’re going through this situation, if you’re really your friend, you won’t mind sharing a beer with you at least once a week.
This point is for those friends whose economic scarcity is always the fault of someone outside of him. Besides, even if you don’t have money, you don’t try or do anything to change your situation. is that you’ll probably always end up paying for everything.
This kind of friend just likes you to use it selfishly, and let’s face it, you don’t need someone like that in your life to pass the time.
? This keeps chatting. They are people who are characterized by the condemnation and judgment of all around them, what most catches the eye is that their critics point out the same actions that they themselves have done in the past.
If he talks to you, make sure he then talks about you, this way of being arises in both women and men, what you tell that person will become gossip to tell someone more morbidly.
Each of us likes to be surrounded by people we can feel safe with, and this type of friend is not a good example, perhaps some of your best friends and the most sincere have come into contact with you, but someone who constantly speaks ill of others is a person without personality and who is unwilling to do good in this life.
It is true that friends are measured in terms of quality and not quantity. Review your personal life at least once in your life. Share the experience with our readers.