Love includes, does not exclude. Multiply and sum, don’t divide.
He’s coming, he’s not leaving. Hug, don’t squeeze.
Don’t judge
Creating quality relationships is not always easy, in fact, the vast majority of us live so immersed in routine that we don’t even have time to think about the option of building good relationships.
And to this is added a huge difficulty: the fact that, above all, before generating new and good loves, we must have managed to love ourselves.
It is not common for a romantic relationship to start with conflicts and negative experiences, because we assume that every start is always good, we certainly have the ball on our side when we start playing.
We live in a continuous whirlwind of emotions, outdated relationships and sentimental haste What can we do to generate quality relationships?Here are some basic principles that can’t be missed when it comes to building good relationships:
You know there’s no point in looking for our half orange?Find a complete and honest person you can exchange with in any way.
A romantic relationship must consist of two people who share life, supporting each other in their projects, projects and feelings.
Listen face to face what your partner has to say, always in a thoughtful and balanced way, share your thoughts. In the age of technology, most couples have become accustomed to communicating via instant messaging or social media.
This has undoubtedly caused a lot of damage for several reasons. First, communication, inspection and constant control were required; Worst of all, it is empty, routine and unpassa passionous communication, which can lead to misunderstandings extremely damaging to trust.
We all have good and bad past experiences that condition us in the present, forgive yourself and forgive others, let go of bad feelings, the past is gone, collect your past feelings and stop comparing your present reality with the previous one.
Try, from time to time, to stop and check your luggage to get rid of the negative and the unnecessary. We must be aware of what we are doing, strongly determined by what we carry in us, so it is essential that we board periodically. on a new journey with renewed luggage.
When it comes to love, there are magical words that open your heart, it’s not about reciting poetry to your loved one every day, it’s about maintaining global communication and a benevolent attitude as the basis of the relationship. it is very important not to succumb to routine, and that the “I love you” be sincere and passionate.
Nor should we get caught up in trouble and disrespect them; this is fundamental and indisputable, nothing and no one justifies aggressive and authoritarian behavior towards the person we say we love.
It is another of the premises that demonstrates the unity, affection and recognition of the other, shows your interest, makes your love laugh, give it love, and that is certainly what you will receive.
Here are the 5 keys that will help you build healthy and lasting relationships. Remember your goal and keep an eye on it, as Robert Holden pointed out, the ultimate goal of a relationship is to become the most loving person you can be.
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