Our lives are full of problems and conflicts that surprise us. Sometimes we know how to deal with it; Sometimes I don’t.
We often ignore problems or conflicts to overcome them, but that does not mean that they will disappear, nor will we be able to deal with the anger or sadness they generate.
“Who dominates his wrath dominates his worst enemy?
? Confucius?
Today we will discover the resources that we have to solve these problems that, again and again, paralyze us and prevent us from moving forward.
As we said earlier, we often ignore the problems that arise in life in the hope that they will disappear over time.
Skipping us won’t save us from the problems we have
Ignoring a problem can actually cause it to temporarily disappear, but it can return in the near future, or we can also live in a constant state of accumulated and unresolved problems and conflicts.
None of these solutions are correct. We need to look at the problem and try to find you a solution as quickly as possible. The saying that says “what eyes you don’t see, what heart doesn’t smell?”It has nothing to do with it.
Most conflicts and problems arise because we have old ideas in mind that only prevent news from entering our minds.
The more we have a fixed idea in our heads, without the possibility of evolution, the more problems we will have and the more conflicts we will have to face, but why does this happen?
Being certain of the validity of our ideas, not eliminating or replacing them makes us think that they are true, even if they are actually silly, which, unduly, will lead us to suffer several problems that could be avoided with a greater mind open to change.
Listening to other opinions will allow us to adopt new ideas that will enrich our minds.
You should be aware that depending on how you see your future, so will your present. If we see a negative future, our present will be anything but positive.
What should we do? Think positively, visualize the situation without the problem and try to find a solution. We don’t have to look back, we just have to look forward.
Changing the way you see things will help you be more positive
Don’t let problems control your life and determine whether it’ll be good or not. You have the power to visualize recovery, deal with conflicts, and find a solution.
We cannot deny that the problems and conflicts that arise between people can be violent in all aspects, but what about our inner violence?
Not only is the situation violent, but it’s not just misunderstandings and problems. Do we exercise violence against ourselves by suppressing emotions such as anger, boredom, or not verbalizing certain opinions to avoid judging others?
Self-directed abuse is nothing more than a time bomb
Your inner violence will not benefit the conflicts you intend to resolve, sooner or later, all this content anger and the desire to please others will manifest itself in one way or another, creating even more conflict.
This doesn’t mean you should start screaming and showing your anger when you’re sorry, but you have to stop trying to please everyone and be yourself.
Many conflicts make us really difficult and require a lot of effort because we are dealing with people who are important to us.
If this is the case, the solution is very simple. You know we all make mistakes, and throw a heartfelt, encouraging word like “I know you’ve worked hard,” “You’ve accomplished it for yourself?This can be a solution to problems that may arise.
But these are words you have to say to yourself, don’t wait for someone to say them, do it yourself!You are aware of your effort and your work, it will also help you to be aware of the work that others are doing, of the effort of others.
Recognizing your effort will make you understand the efforts of others.
A state of conflict and trouble is hurting you and others. Relationships will be damaged, boredom will take up your life and your health may be affected. Never ignore conflicts, face them as soon as possible, with your head up.