Life is a series of mountains and valleys, a mixture of happy moments, normal everyday events and difficult situations, sometimes you feel euphoric, other times it is as if the world is over, and if the natural tendency of the human being is to seek happiness, it is really the difficult situations that put us to the test and make us grow.
The way we deal with these difficult times is what really defines who we are and makes us deeply appreciate all the events of life. When a person is able to overcome these difficult situations, he not only grows inwardly, but also learns to value happiness in another way, which will give him inner strength and wisdom.
“Life is not what we think it should be, it is what it is. Does the way you deal with it make a difference?
Even in the most desperate situation there is hope, it is easier to talk than to act, but it is possible to get out of the hole and overcome the difficulties, it is not easy, but no one has said that it will be, but still, many people succeed. Here are some tips that can help you overcome these choking situations that you don’t think you’re going to get over at first.
You know from experience that everything is worth, that nothing lasts forever, this situation of pain and anguish that you feel will also happen, no matter how overwhelming or intense, it will also happen, so do not cling to your pain to overcome it, feel it, let it sink, but without attachment.
Don’t feel guilty about feeling pain or trying to take responsibility, inside or outside of you. Seeking the culprit will solve nothing, it will only increase anger. Feel your pain, it’s yours, then let it flow. Sooner or later. , it will be, but only when you let it sink. That’s how you’ll find your way out.
There’s a lot of strength and courage in you, if you haven’t realized how strong it is yet, because you didn’t have to use that locked force inside you, in the face of a difficult situation, you have a chance to let go of this. inner strength.
Don’t you feel that strength? This is because he feels fear, a paralyzing fear that can make him think of atrocities. But whatever your fear tells you is a lie. You can overcome this situation because you have the tools to do so. Find these tools and put them into practice.
Let your will prevail over your mind, and reason will prevail over your heart. Accept the fact that you have to find that strength, even if it hurts. Be brave in making the decision to control your thoughts.
“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how do you react?. – Charles Swindoll-
Pain and loss are part of life; we’re all going through painful moments, don’t let others interfere in the way you deal with pain, face your own reality your way, it’s yours and no one else’s.
There is no right way to manage pain, it doesn’t need to be politically correct. Decide for yourself what you want to do. Look inside what you need to do to let the pain flow. Find out where your inner strength is and how. to use it to your advantage.
Many won’t understand how you feel your pain, but that’s not your problem. Don’t let anyone decide for you how to handle your difficult situations.
In a difficult situation, there are many things you cannot control, but we cling to it, we try to find explanations and find the culprits, and in this attempt to control everything we cling to anger and pain.
Let go, let go, don’t focus on what’s out of control, let anxieties flow, get rid of them, focus on the pursuit of inner peace, you can’t control the situation and not even your emotions, accept them without attachment and don’t try to dominate them.
Everything in life has a meaning, a reason, an apprenticeship, just look. He thinks you can learn something good from everything that happens to you, even in the most painful situations. Don’t try to understand or manipulate the situation. Let me show you something that will make you a stronger, braver person.
Dean R. Koontz once said that we received answers through prayer, but that we should listen carefully and believe in the answer. God doesn’t scream, he whispers. And the road is in the whispers. It’s an equally valid idea, apply it to your beliefs.