Abuse is a situation that can happen in different ways in our day to day, it can be your partner, friend or colleague, someone who doesn’t know how to treat you without hurting you.
This is something that can be avoided because it is not easy to abuse some people. Abusers choose those who are more “fragile”, more precarious and who do not know how to react when they find themselves in a situation beyond their control.
- Do you want to learn how to react or react to an abusive situation? You want to finish.
- But are you afraid? Don’t submit.
- Don’t accept what you don’t want.
- Today is the day to avoid abuse.
A proper answer can keep that person from hurting you anymore, but how can you do that?We don’t always have the courage, but we must find strength, wherever it is, and know how to respond to it.
Sometimes we allow ourselves to be misunderstood (anyway) because the way we act is not the most correct. Answer correctly in these two ways: The first way to respond is to use closing, short, concecised and short phrases accompanied by palpable phrases. firmness and certainty, for example:
Some may seem a little limiting, but if we want to prevent them from hurting us in any way, we often have to change our kind posture to a firmer stance.
The second way to respond is to do it as a scratched disk. The strength to repeat the same thing over and over again will make the other aware of our position, and thus reaffirm what we don’t really want to see repeated.
No one has the right to smile. Even if you are in a difficult situation, get up with a smile; will help you ignore what others might say. The key is to get to know each other. Know what’s good and what’s not to do, what your strengths and weaknesses are, what you need, but also what you have.
If you’re confident, no one can degrade you. All the nasty words or comments you can say will pass as if nothing had happened. You know who you are, no one should define you, belittle you, you know the truth. They know that too, but they’re trying to hurt you anyway.
Why do you stay quiet when you want to say how you feel, why are you afraid?Fear, besides dominating us, means that we don’t say what we think, you’re probably afraid of being hurt, but don’t hesitate that saying what you think is right, learn to tell how you feel, learn to express yourself. This will make you stronger and keep you from hurting yourself.
If you don’t like the tone of voice they use with you, say so!If you don’t like the way they do it, say it, what’s wrong with that?Learn to express yourself. If others are brave enough to attack you, you have every right to defend yourself.
When someone who mistreats us says something, we shut up. That way, we declare what they say, even if we disagree with them. In these cases, silence is against us.
That’s why today we have to learn to question what they say, forcing the aggressor to broaden their arguments, but you know what?You won’t be able to do it right. The aggressor will say “because yes” but you have to force the situation and make it argue, because it doesn’t make sense.
In this way, do not humble yourself, do not give up, stay at the same level as this person, allowing him to explain something that he cannot explain to you, so you will know that she is not right and therefore cannot hurt. You.
You want to know how you can disarm the person who’s abusing you?It’s simple, just block and know how not to respond. We’ve seen one of these things before, but there are many more:
What happens when we do that? They leave us alone, if when they tell us?These colors don’t match, is it horrible!? We respond with an “e”, the aggressor will crash into a wall. Remember, these people feed on your submission.
The abuser is an insecure person who thinks he or she is safe in humiliating others. Don’t let him. In you lies the choice of mistreating you or not, whether in a romantic relationship, at school or at work.
Images provided by Angela Carte, Gustav Klimt.