As a child, you definitely identified with a superhero who fought enemies using a cape, sword, or special power. Or maybe he thought his father was the one who could save him from all the dangers.
But what happens when you grow up, we stop being brave, do we feel one in a thousand and we want to go unnoticed, aren’t we doing justice with our bare hands, waiting for the laws to help us?
- Beyond all this.
- It is also true that today it is very difficult to be brave.
- Shyness is the one that wins battles and makes us earn points in our self-esteem ranking.
Socially, the brave are valued and insist that the shy change their attitude, there is no need to fight a villain, a fire-spitting dragon or a meteorite that can destroy the planet.
Being aware of what happens to us is enough (at least to begin with). Courage doesn’t just include heroic acts, the kind of acts that come out of the papers when a man saves a baby falling into the river, or a firefighter rescues an old woman who slept with the stove on.
To be brave means to take risks, to try something new, not to be afraid that things will go wrong.
You don’t need to act like a Marvel or Justice League character from now on and start beating the gangs in your city. Every day you have the ability to “be a little braver. “If it’s step by step, it’ll be a lot easier.
You want to know how? So pay attention to the following points, you don’t need to follow an order, but add them to your habits and not forget the rest already learned and put into practice. Are you ready?
1- Let yourself be felt
2- Set aside those who failed you or let you down
3- Look in the mirror and highlight the positive
4- Say you love someone (if you really like them)
5- Practice what you like or are passionate about
6- Write your own story, not just that of others
7- Share your ideas, even if they’re crazy
8- Give your opinion, even if they are different
9- For a day, go out on the street with the “washed face”?
10- Let yourself make mistakes
11- Trust your senses and instincts
12- Try to do something for the first time
13- Set limits with people, things and activities
14- Start something you’ve always decided to do
15- Sing in the middle of the street (if challenging, better)
16- Dancing on the way to work
17- Play an instrument (even if you’ve never seen it in your life)
18- Use skates or skates to buy
19- Tolerating discomfort
20- Make a lot of mistakes
21- Hey, don’t I know?
22- Ask for help when you can’t do something
23- Be vulnerable from time to time
24- Dealing with problems
25- Let the past be left behind
26- Take photos
27- Trust a very incoherent idea
28- Help a friend in trouble
29- Say goodbye to an abusive relationship that doesn’t do you any good
30- Say goodbye to your fears
31- Tell your nightmares
32- Speaks out against harm
33- Don’t do the things you don’t want
34- Don’t say what you don’t feel or don’t think
35- Dress without thinking about fashion
36- Take the first step after a fight
37- Giving a flower or candy to a stranger
38- I don’t want to have everything under control
39- I love your madness
40- Ask someone how you are and don’t interrupt them
41- Don’t react badly when someone criticizes you
42- Embrace someone you love
43- Congratulate yourself by saying beautiful things about yourself, your accomplishments and your appearance
44- Aren’t you always full? Yes? Too busy?
45- Being open to new things
46- Go back to the beginning as many times as necessary
47- Ask everyone around you for feedback
48- Be like a child and have fun
49- Talk to someone you love who doesn’t have the courage to ask you out
50- Ask for a meeting with your boss and say what you think
Remember that being brave is not being afraid, but being able to overcome fear.