Don’t you really know a person until you go through really extreme situations with them?Or incredibly simple.
Many people spend a lot of time trying to please others or be the person they expect from them.
- They hide or nullifies their true way of being for different reasons.
- With the aim of being appreciated by others as a priority.
It is a terribly exhausting way of life that, in the end, becomes useless, because sooner or later, the true self behind the mask will surface.
And there’s no need to expect extreme situations. Next, I’ll list some very simple situations in our daily lives that can show people’s true self.
If you want to meet someone for real, or meet you, here you will find a proof of fire. Are you ready?
Few things reveal the real thing? How to assemble a piece of furniture.
You look surrounded by a bunch of almost identical or slightly different pieces and modest instructions in diagrams — almost ridiculous — that seem to be in a language that hasn’t been invented yet is a real nerve test and self-control, especially if the work is going to be done with someone.
It can be cables, chains, wires or anything else, unwinding the cables of electronic devices to use them or a gold chain to be able to put it around your neck is a very stressful thing that requires much more than skill with your fingers.
Restaurants and cafes are a test of fire to get to know people. The way you call or complain to the server says a lot about who is addressing them.
The stress created by waiting or feeling sorry for something gone wrong causes us to lose control and manifests us as we are. Look at your knowledge and yourself to see.
When we drive we are so attentive to the road that we forget everything else, the fear of an accident causes any other idea to fall apart.
Situations such as waiting at a traffic light, waiting for the other to move when the traffic light turns green, dealing with the recklessness of other vehicles or pedestrians, congestion (especially in warm climates) or even minor conflicts in the car (children fighting, people talking to you and not letting you pay attention to the GPS navigator, etc. ) highlights a person’s true character.
Imagine a family situation or with friends. Among the boys, one of them appears to be stained in the ears, another with mucus hanging from her nose, a girl with a bisted ponytail and another with a knee injury.
This, which seems to be chaos, can be ignored by more people than you think, including your closest relatives. In addition, the way people care for their children, nephews or grandchildren is clear evidence of their true character.
A person’s reaction when he stains his clothes, wrinkles or ruins his makeup/nails will reveal that person’s true interest, especially if the culprit has a name.
These reactions can have very deep readings about what really matters to this person, the respect he shows to others and even his personal complexes.