Relationships grow, evolve and change by taking a well-differentiated and defined step, this explains why we don’t feel the same after a few years of relationship that when we met, knowing these steps gives us security and tranquility in how to focus differences, as well as to resolve conflicts or mixed feelings.
Just as we change, learn, grow, and mature, relationships do the same, and identifying these changes will help us make the most of the relationship with the person chosen to share our lives.
- Passion is a stage of intense emotions.
- “cold in the belly?”And a strong desire to be with the loved one.
- Desire and passion.
- With or without sexual activity.
- Become the main ingredients of this stage.
- Which bring out an intense fantasy and creativity.
- With which to surprise the other person.
In passion all the attention is focused on the common aspects shared by lovers, so understanding and understanding are present in their encounters, without being only aware of the aspects that differentiate them as separate people.
By the magic of the moment and the desired encounters, we tend to avoid discussions and conflicts, from there the beginning of the relationship is through a particular and exciting stage, that of the discovery of the other, which we would never like. to finish.
At this stage, passion gives way to the deepest and most intimate knowledge of the other. And, of course, discover the differences and peculiarities of the two?
Each person, unique and unique, begins to show himself as he really is, in its entirety and in its autonomy, each person begins to share his or her personal experiences. There is not so much idealization, but the encounter is beginning to become more real.
“Do not forget that the greatest love and achievements carry the greatest risks. -Anonymous-
The couple is consolidated as such after a period of knowledge of both, where the attention was mainly in the projection of a life in common and in projects, it is decided to share a life, born of coexistence and the house chosen by both.
Sexual activity decreases due to routine, responsibilities and burdens; couple love is expressed in a more emotional, respectful way and in the form of support and understanding for a life in common; differences can occur in the way conflicts are resolved, and the search for agreements. negotiations will be needed.
After a time of coexistence, of wanting to share everything, individual needs arise and their defense, it is time to plan separate activities, respecting the bond and commitment established in the couple, at this stage conflicts can arise due to unresolved personal crises.
It’s like an encounter with you after being a season focused on each other and the relationship. When individual needs reappear, each member of the couple decides to focus on themselves, at least for a few moments.
Upon arriving here, the couple decides to deepen their relationship, which becomes more mature and stable, it is time to make decisions such as carrying out common projects, such as building a family.
It is a stage where the dream, excitement and enthusiasm to share what the two have decided to create to continue building their future and their project of life together in the middle reappears.
“Love are two souls that are seen through bodies. -Anonymous-
Life continues and changes occur. If the couple adapts to it, it consolidates and matures. It is time for the couple to consolidate or break, as they question the scale of personal and shared values. New interests arise as a result of changes, such as children’s independence, retirement, illness, etc.
This can be a re reunion stage, as the demands, responsibilities and burdens of life are lower, and we can refocus on the relationship to share new projects, as was the beginning of the relationship.