Achieving happiness is a common trait that defines us as human beings. However, it is common to encounter an enemy who opposes happiness: ourselves; because of the limitations we impose ourselves, with or without intent.
Many people cling to certain ideas with the assurance that this is what they need to be happy, when in reality they are only restricting their ability to achieve true happiness. In fact, the first problem is the definition of what it means to be happy. since, as James E. Talmage described it, one of the greatest problems of modern man is recognizing the difference between happiness and pleasure.
- “Happiness does not always require success.
- Prosperity.
- Or special accomplishments; often comes from the pleasure of encouraging effort.
- Of dedicating our own energies to a just end.
- The root of true happiness is planted in self-denial and its flower is “love”.
- -William George Jordan-.
Given the current lifestyle, being happy does not mean doing more or doing more, in fact we must let go, stop doing and forget certain rules of behavior, in the age of freedoms we remain tied to a multitude of invisible chains. that don’t allow us to be ourselves.
Dropping these chains and abandoning these ideas can bring us closer to anything else we consider happiness.
Start thinking about what you expect and don’t depend on the opinions of others, don’t let anyone manipulate your choices or organize your life, live by your values. If you depend on the opinions of others, you do things for them, depending on their interests.
Anger and resentment devour you from within, you are the one who punishes himself and the unhappy, the one who endures the harm of the other, learns to be at peace with those who have hurt you, with forgiveness you are the only one who has relief. The one who bothers him is the one who controls it. Regain control by unsealing resentment, forgiving.
“Life becomes easier when we learn to accept excuses that have never been given. -Robert Braul-
Vacuuming perfectly in some respects is very laudable, at least in spiritual terms. Loving and valuing perfection is also a good thing. But living for and for perfection is something else. Stop thinking about the perfect body, the perfect companion, the perfect life, the perfect things. The constant pursuit of perfection can obsess and stop you, preventing you from moving forward.
I’m sure you’ve heard that money doesn’t bring happiness. There are many people who, to justify their misfortune, add that “maybe not, but it helps. “But in reality, what makes them unhappy is that they have not found the meaning of their existence. Money and happiness have nothing to do with it. It is the way to value what we have and what we live that is close to happiness or not, to have possessions or not.
“A man’s wealth is not in what he possesses, but in what he leaves after he leaves. -Yasmina Khadra-
Don’t make excuses. If something’s wrong, do something. If you need something you don’t have, do what you have to do to get it. If what you’re looking for isn’t right, look for another alternative.
Think, if you wanted to do something or learn something, why wait to get started?If you don’t like something, change it. And if you can’t change it, change it. So, what do you expect?
“When you say it’s too late, be careful. This will only be the excuse to give up. No one can stop your success except you. -Wang Deshun-
Don’t be stubborn and admit at once for all your mistakes, bad thoughts and attitudes, insisting won’t give you the reason. Correcting and admitting your mistakes won’t weaken you. The less stubborn and stubborn he is, the more open he will be to positive change and the more flexible he will be to deal with problems.
Bringing negative feelings from past demands will only make it harder to progress. Stop living in the past. Learn, forgive and become happy. Continuing the pain will prevent you from seeing all the opportunities that arise and make you judge the people who come to know you.