Humans are social animals by nature. This need for exchange is not only a potential source of comfort, but is also the source of some of our most important learnings.
Thus, from our ability to observe we write our most innocent score, the one with which we began to face the world and to make our first decisions, which becomes the source of our evolution as a people.
- However.
- Others not only influence our education.
- But also mark our lives with their actions and words.
- Words have the power to awaken our numb motivation.
- Can reassure us in times of oppression.
- They can cover up lies and stab us in the back.
- Or they can gently whisper in our loving ears.
In short, the words we hear can awaken our value or increase our sadness, forcing people who have the ability to use them to also know their power and use them only with intrinsic responsibility in them.
Toxic people are those who prefer to take negative use of words and use them to cause harm, cause fear, cultivate bitterness and generate tears for no purpose or to do good, carry with them heart problems, habits and negative attitudes. Always have a bottle of poison to share with whoever crosses your path, in the form of self-sufficiency.
Today we will teach you how to discover the 7 traits of toxic people, which prevent us, or hinder, in our personal growth Will collecting them in time allow us?Observe and protect us and learn from experience.
1. They speak continuously and in excess of themselves, forgetting the people around them and thus unconsciously feeding their egos.
2. Su speech is always built through complaints and pessimism, I don’t know about you, but when I come across a person who always sees the negative side of things, unconsciously my heart shows me two options: to show that life is not based on a pessimistic vision, with real examples, or to flee to emotion. It’s you?
3. Si you have someone in your life who has quickly assumed the role of victim, who intends to be constantly the center of attention or simply does not want to go unnoticed, then you have every chance of meeting a toxic person.
4. They assume the attitude that the world is against them, they do not stop to analyze the situations that occur or that they themselves generate. This behavior is very similar to the previous point of “playing the victim”. If they don’t stop, they won’t control their own life or their heart. More importantly, they certainly won’t be able to enjoy a healthy conscience.
This will prevent them from understanding their own characteristics and can take harmful actions toward those around them, causing them potential harm. If you know someone like that, I recommend you make this point: try to stay away from them.
Fortunately, over time I’ve realized what envy, jealousy and pride mean in people’s lives and mine, you’ll agree with me that they’re like emotional vampires stealing other people’s energy, toxic people base their lives on that every day. .
6. People who sit or live in a toxic attitude are not happy, their reflection will prevent them from living in peace and harmony with others and the world around them, we are all responsible for what we want and want to live well, so of course we have the resources to change certain attitudes and enjoy our lives with more happiness.
7. The last point is the reflection, awareness and the beginning of a process of personal change: the person who feels envy is not content with the joys of the people because, inwardly, he lives conscious of his own faults. And believe me, when you live at this level of deprivation, you spend your days in an emotionally unpleasant way.
With all this, I hope that these seven traits will allow you to enjoy an environment based on friends and people full of love, in which you share with yourself what every human being deserves: respect, support and unconditional love.
Finally, I’ll share a secret: attitudes that cause unhappiness and?A bad life? They can be corrected, eliminated and undone, with willpower and, most importantly, with the desire to be happy and achieve one’s happiness, so that you can share it with the world.