Although we do not believe in it, we are surrounded by people with toxic personalities, people who make us feel bad even though we are not to blame, who use us without what we seem to be able to avoid, who have us at their mercy. without us noticing. Many of these toxic personalities are known, but we are not aware of their consequences.
Below we will show you the seven most common types of toxic personalities that we find in our daily life, around us, so that you can identify them and try to set limits and strategies to avoid being hurt.
- “We often allow gossip.
- Envious.
- Bossy.
- Psychopathic.
- Proud and mediocre people to enter our innermost circle.
- Finally toxic people.
- Bad people who constantly evaluate what we say and what we say.
- Aren’t we saying.
- And what aren’t we doing? -Bernardo Stamatea-.
An envious person will always try to have allies. This will ensure that you will poison others with your bad words and your bad thoughts. That kind of person isn’t happy. They always want what others have and they’ll try to boycott them.
It’s easy to spot the envious. You can see them coming, the most important thing is to know how to escape them, not let them influence us with their toxic thoughts, if it affects us we must try to ignore them, if we become a probable ally, we should not let our thoughts on a person guide us.
No one thinks the same way about anyone and we have to keep that clear in our minds. Don’t let anyone change what we think or oppose other people for their toxic thoughts.
The authoritarian person is usually a boss. Someone who has others under his power. They are usually very insurgical people and therefore incite fear in their subordinates, so they believe that the boss has control and power. But he doesn’t stay there. An authoritarian person comes to humiliate, threaten and profit by imposing his will, plays with the need of people to keep their jobs.
No one should tolerate this, even if that person is your boss. Currently, there is a law that includes job harassment. If you find yourser in such a situation, don’t be afraid to take appropriate action. Going to work can turn into torture.
It’s hard to spot a manipulative person. The manipulator is a toxic personality that can go unnoticed for a long time without being discovered, they are friendly and generous. They have a great capacity for empathy, which suits them very well, but when you know them better, there are some things you should avoid.
For starters, never be honest with a manipulative person. She’ll feel attacked and make you feel guilty about your sincerity. So the only culprit in history will be you?you’ll end up controlling what she says so you don’t feel bad afterwards.
Manipulators play dirty and tend to lie. If you have any problems, theirs will be worse. Finally, they have the gift of polluting their surroundings. If they’re sad, the atmosphere will be sad too.
As the name suggests, pessimists always see everything negatively, they are people who touch each other for everything and who make it very easy for them, that negativity in which they live attracts even more negativity, therefore, it becomes a vicious circle. they show themselves as helpless victims in front of the world. They continually complain about their past, present and likely future.
You have to stay away from these types of people. As much as you try to make them see that not everything is as bad as it seems, they will convince you otherwise and feed on your positivity to make you feel good. The consequence is that you will no longer feel so good. These guys are also known as “emotional vampires”.
He’s one of the most dangerous personalities. We face impulsive people who don’t set emotional limits and don’t feel remorse when they hurt others. They are ambitious people who achieve their goals without worrying about destroying people along the way. You can’t apologize.
Sociopaths are lovely people because they say everything you want to hear, they tend to be very interested in the person they are talking to, to ask many questions, in order to get information that will be stored in the future to use against the person. . With this they will lie and deceive to get what they want. They will claim feelings they do not feel or suffer. It’s the opposite of an empathetic person.
How do I recognize a sociopath? We have to be very careful, as they do not feel emotions, it is necessary to observe the expression of their face and facial muscles, if they look at you and do not move a muscle of your face, be careful, probably manipulate you.
The offensive personality has fun underestimating, manipulating and emotionally destabilizing others, this gives the impression that the other person is unsure and depends on their opinions, will show up as a great friend, but will use everything you tell them. devalue it against others at the right time, so pretend to be interested in what you hear and play with the wow factor
The neurotic person is generally unsafe, so he will try to achieve a good social position even if he is given goals that he cannot meet, because of his feelings of devaluation, that block him. knowing more than she does, so she will always try to get attention.
Because of this type of insecurity, which he suffered from an early age and cannot solve, the neurotic develops a perfectionist, confrontational, selfish and childish behavior, which makes him control the other person. In addition, his mood swings make life impossible with this personality.
Each of these toxic personalities pollutes everyone around us with their negative energies, understanding who we are reporting to is also important for our health, the trick is to anticipate and choose who we want to identify with, avoiding toxic personalities that can harm us.