Not all friendships are eternal, so not all romantic relationships, sometimes ending a friendship can cause a lot of pain, especially when we talk about close friends and consider them, in a way, essential in our lives.
With “more distant” friends what usually happens, becoming more than a great breakup, is a gradual and gradual separation over time, the damage caused by such absences is usually much less, and the relationship is usually left with good memory, with cordial treatment, even pleasant.
- In any case.
- Always keep in mind that you can take care of a friendship.
- But that many times.
- No matter how hard we try.
- We can’t stop it from cooling down.
- Is it something that happens between the two friends.
- And when we talk about a group of friends.
- Is it about several people?.
Here are a series of ideas so that this ending doesn’t become a drama and can happen in the least painful way possible.
We all make mistakes and you’re no exception, the important thing is to be able to admit them.
There is nothing more frustrating for someone than arguing with someone who never admits their mistakes, it is common for friends to miss certain mistakes that hurt them, and at this point you should not deny or minimize them.
Ask yourself if it’s really advantageous to lose something precious out of pride. No friendship, but good memories?
Admitting you were wrong is a big step, but you often lose its charm if it’s not accompanied by a sincere apology. You don’t need to be radical. It’s enough that the apology is as sincere as possible. Always avoid disguised or direct aggressions.
Focus on what really happened. Don’t be tempted to make assumptions about why the other person did something.
You’d be surprised how many times we’ve made mistakes in our assumptions.
If friendship ends because the other person has hurt you a lot, this point may seem almost impossible.
Keep in mind that you’ve certainly caused someone pain at some point, and that’s not why you’re considered a bad person.
Experience shows that we understand our mistakes better than others
It’s very common for people to project insecurity on the other person without even realizing it. This means that we believe that our friend thinks something he doesn’t really think about; actually, you have that in mind.
Avoid questions like, “Do you think of me?” That I’m a failure?Before you say that, see if you look like this.
It’s very important. Focus on the present. Discuss, talk, feel bad or not, but just for the news Don’t fall for the mere discussion of things that have already happened, it is better not to touch the good and bad moments and memories.
You may be tempted to talk to other friends to support your story; It gives us the feeling that we are not wrong in our judgment on the other person. However, we can do and do much more damage than we think if we decide to follow that path.
Don’t force others to express your thoughts, because in the end you may have a bad opinion. It also avoids spreading rumors. Things aren’t always what they seem.