Ana’s not happy with him anymore. Everything that fell in love with him seems to have disappeared like a puff of smoke. Don’t you feel lonely, carefree, don’t he text you when he works saying “I think of you,” and he doesn’t kiss you when he gets home?And she wonders what happened to our love?
Anne has stopped trusting her and feels that there is nothing that one of them, there are no more kisses or caresses, just talk?Nor do they say how the day went, those daily things that brought them so close and that made Ana feel special are Routine, time and, perhaps, to think that everything is already won, that everything is already conquered, ruins your relationship with Peter.
- Isn’t Peter happy too? When she returns from work she feels as lonely as she does.
- Pedro and Ana have different work schedules and.
- On several occasions.
- Pedro has lunch or dinner without the company of this accomplice and with such a nice smile that he remembers eating the last ration before falling asleep.
- Also alone.
- Because Ana works the night shift.
This fictional story we just told might reflect one of the many stories of couples who don’t have the best time in their relationship, but in situations like this, all we can do is say it’s over, is there still a solution for us?
Love is the greatest mystery and the best adventure that each lives, in a unique and special way. In love, are there no recipes or magic formulas, either to emerge or to preserve?But maybe love is like a little plant that needs to be watered every day, or like a flame that sometimes burns a lot and sometimes it’s weak and small, but it never goes out.
We know that magic formulas do not exist in love, but perhaps the emotional intelligence applied to love can serve us for something, so we want to present you an interesting article, published in Psycology Today by psychiatrist and consultant Mark Goulston. This writer is also the author of the book “How to get and maintain the love you deserve?”, which shows us 9 habits that characterize happy couples. Maybe it’s not magic, it’s emotional intelligence?
Here is the interesting list of 9 happy couple habits, according to Dr. Goulston:
1. They have common interests. Doing things together unites people, and doing things separately can be appropriate for our partner to find us more interesting, and avoids dependence on each other.
2. Trust each other and forgive us. Resentment and refusal to forgive paralyze relationships. After so many fights, when the waters calm down, talking, forgiving and re-trusting is the best we can do with our partner.
3. Walk together, side by side, by hand. Walking together is a way to feel like you have a common destiny, to synchronize your steps from time to time.
4. Lie down at the same time. At the beginning of relationships, couples often fall asleep at the same time to strengthen their bond, however, when the couple has been together for a long time, everyone chooses their schedules, does this only take away desire, because intimate contact?Physical and mental, in bed, it’s very important.
5. Are you talking? Good morning? And I love you?At the beginning of the day, what better way to start the day and cope with work stress and stress and daily worries?
6 Are you talking? Before you go to bed, even if you’re upset, it’s a way to make our partner understand that even if it’s not the best day among you, there’s always love.
7. Call and text during the day. It’s a good way to maintain empathy with our partner, knowing how your day is going is good to know how to act when you get back.
8. Se proud to appear in public as a couple, walk hand in hand, touch each other by waist and shoulder, what matters is that they want to make public their love, that they are proud to be together. .
9. Focus on the positives of your partner. We all have negative and positive things, so it’s always better to focus on the positives of our partner, the negative only helps to generate more negativity.
What would you add to the list? If the two members of the relationship love each other, there is almost always a solution.