As extraordinary human beings we are, we desire success, we are created to achieve it and to achieve everything our heart desires.
The problem? Many of us have not yet discovered the essential ingredients to outperform ourselves and become successful people.
- It is true that success requires hard work and perseverance.
- But more than that.
- It means having a free mind.
- Open and ready to move on.
“Is self-confidence the first secret of success?
? Ralph Waldo Emerson?
If you’re willing to do so, I’ll be happy to share with you the 9 differences between successful and failed people.
I was once told that one of the essential ingredients to achieve our dreams and succeed is to visualize what we want, in this way we trust each other, what we can do and we have everything necessary to make it come true.
The next ingredient is to draw a map of life, which can be professional, personal or both. If you think about what your heart really wants, you’ll know what you want. Getting going is what really matters.
We need to analyze our thoughts and feelings, always taking into account the experiences of people evolving in the environment in which we want to succeed.
It is important to consider the example of those who have already achieved it. Here we are not talking about “copying”, but borrowing what can be good and productive for you.
The fact that we take into account the people around us is something that inspires us and allows us to excel looking to share the best of ourselves with them and with the world.
What could be more motivating in this life than discovering new things and experiences?Life is wonderful and full of fascinating situations.
A successful person will always be part of this premise, and their days will be amazing simply by getting up and being, or rather by “feeling alive. “
This feeling fills us with motivation. A healthy motivation that moves us forward and makes us feel strong enough to overcome obstacles that may arise in life.
Motivation is the driving force behind us
To think that we know everything will only make us static, without being able to progress towards success.
A great friend and professional in my field of personal development says that “the people with which you are in a relationship condition you to think and feel in a certain way and therefore condition what you can achieve.
It is important to surround ourselves with pure people who love us with unconditional love, friends and family are the fundamental pillars of our personality, we freely choose them and we entrust a part of our heart to them.
Remember that it is essential to know how to choose the people around you, you have to understand the virtues of true friends and thus be aware of who they are and those who are not.
Errors are not negative. Socially, they try to teach us to see failures or failures as elements from which we must walk away, but in fact making mistakes and learning from our mistakes allows us to evolve and move towards our success.
Being responsible for our mistakes will give us many more benefits when it comes to using them as resources to grow and learn throughout life.
This point can be summed up in “Life Does You What You Give. “Therefore, if you want to succeed, do not want the evil of others. Energy is contagious. Imagine that a loved one is trying to convey this, how would you feel?
We live to live, not to get sick, to suffer or martyr ourselves constantly, do not allow yourself to share only misfortunes and adopt an open attitude to life, remember that by opening our eyes we can see many more horizons full of beauty and opportunity.
Successful people live “today,” taking advantage of every moment, every moment to realize their happiness and dreams. Meanwhile, people who have failed are often rooted in the past and constant complaints, unable to move forward.
Successful people know how to forgive others and themselves, free themselves from grudges and regrets so they can move on.
Original Spanish text by Paula Daaz.