And he continued his footsteps in the hope that at some point he would look back, remembering day by day that sweet voice that spoke in his memory, those eyes that looked very closely, and that way of shaking when the two bodies were touched.
And his hopeful walk, at the same time as a broken heart, did not hesitate to continue despite the thousand no’s and the thousand rejections he had already accumulated in his recent past.
- And with millions of tears.
- He would water his tracks.
- Wither the little will he had left.
- And swear never to follow in his footsteps again.
- And his captives of pain crawled into the mud of ruminant thoughts.
- Leaving behind any idea of what he happily called dignity in his day.
And despite the endless promises he made to his friends, family and himself, he pleaded again, he did not care about the results that carried him, he always pleaded, every time he awoke the sign of anguish from within, he cried by mastering his ability to control and to let himself be carried away by the designs of despair.
And his engulfed and crushed self-esteem was sunk into the darkest, deepest mud, abandoning the person who once accompanied him. Displaced by the melancholy of memories of broken and lost love, eternal fidelity and future broken projects.
And he looked back and thought, what could I have done not to do it?And cry?
Who has not suffered or witnessed the end of a relationship?And among those who have lived or seen, how many have been swept away by the frustration of defeat?How many fought one, didn’t they? However, in the face of the inevitable end in the hope of fixing everything and returning to the point of recovery What can you do not get here?
Is it true that, in many cases, one?True, they’re eternal, but in some cases we can get one?No? Under the pressure of our anguish, our control and because we want to have a crazy answer, when the person only needs time. Sometimes this pressure is what drives the other to make the final “no” decision.
Couples’ conflicts, like any conflict in this human world, can be resolved.
Activating the solution requires commitment and will, will and action, dedication and understanding. A breakup can be the departure of one of the couple’s members into a situation that, from their point of view, is unbearable.
Even in many cases, it can be more of an oxygen inhalation than a real abandonment, the case is that there is usually an active part and a passive part, that is, a party wants this separation and activates all measures to make it happen. and a passive party doesn’t want it or want it.
The fact that this is the active part of the decision does not mean that less is suffered, nor that the passive party is responsible for such separation.
When you talk about a breakup and it has nothing to do with third parties, you have to do self-criticism, even if it’s difficult, because despite trying to get things right, maybe in many cases you’ve been wrong, judged and provoked. unintentionally insinuated.
There are many tips we can follow so that these situations do not reach a point of non-return, such as:
? Not to impose but to dialogue, to reach consensus. Stop fighting to see who’s right, but explain your reasons or logic. Focus more on the present and don’t remember past conflicts, let alone use them as an example.
? Understanding that it is normal to disagree with something, considering it more as a challenge to find common ground than as a conflict.
? Encourage your partner in detail for the efforts you are making to improve the relationship or coexistence. Small details, a kiss, a hug, a hug, a caress, a smile or a moment of attention can become bigger and more powerful than great actions.
? If you’re going to criticize something you don’t like, it’s better to talk about behavior than the person, that’s showing what he did that he didn’t like more than using censorship or disdain. for a good coexistence.
? In difficult situations, stay away and make the decision in advance and in dialogue, thinking for a long time and looking for creative solutions to the problem, when you are more relaxed, try to dialogue and understand in a more thoughtful and patient way. both giving in so they can both win.
? Strive to listen, look you in the eye, try to understand your world, its vicissitudes, its worries and fears.
? Find common activities and recover that time shared that was pleasant for both of you. Accept the dynamism of the relationship without trying to be a copy of it.
? Trust and give your partner time, don’t drown their calls or messages and respect their own space, freedom is the seed of true love.
? And most importantly, spend time with yourself, when your partner isn’t there, where you remember who you are, and why one day that person fell in love with you.
Albert Einstein said
“Doesn’t energy create or destroy, it just changes?
Love too!