It is very interesting to know how we will understand some of the things that only happen to us beforehand, in the past, when we can analyze everything from a safe distance, we will never understand anything else, because of the pain it causes and the emptiness. The left can never be surpassed. Still, there’s nothing like the sense of understanding and peace we felt when we realize that everything went exactly right.
One of the most unpleasant experiences we will have is putting a foot in the ass of the person we love, seeing someone come out who we believe is the love of our lives, someone without the presence of those we think we will not survive. At first, we will despair by reflecting on what made us drive this person out of our lives.
- The guilt will fall so heavily on our broken soul.
- That we will be unable to reflect on what the other has not been able to do either.
- How simply the other has remained just without surrendering.
- Without sharing.
- Without reciprocity.
- Guilt at the end of a relationship that belongs to both of them.
- Because they both sailed on rough seas for a while and played blindly.
- And another.
- Love can end.
- Yes.
- It just ends.
- After the accumulation of emptiness.
- Life goes on.
Another very desperate experience is unemployment, when we are fired from a job that was already part of our day to day, at first we thought that the world was over, that we would never work again, that it was the best job in We will forget how exhausting this work has been, how unhappy it has done to us, how many colleagues have betrayed us.
In fact, most people get better after experiencing severe skin pain, after living desperate and painful experiences, it’s as if suffering emptied our senses, so that, little by little, we fill ourselves with hope and strength to fight. The emotional devastation that overwhelms us, we get up, because we have to go on, survive, go back to work, love again, live again.
For this reason, even if we cannot remain inert in the face of what is bad for us, being convinced that the best is yet to come will help us through the dark nights with a hint of hope that will make a big difference. To believe that we deserve the best is not naivety, but a necessity, not to slap ourselves less strongly and not to take away the focus of light inside us.