Reading an article this week, I came across a very intriguing phrase that read, “Accept that it hurts less!”I stopped for a moment and thought: what do I have to accept so as not to suffer too much?Because here for us, that no one is safe from suffering, everyone knows, but spending years and years suffering no one deserves it. No one came into this world to live in hell. We all go through difficult times, but we shouldn’t stick to them and this is where ACCEPTED comes in!
According to the dictionary, the word accept has the meaning: to agree or to comply, at that point it is difficult to settle for something that has not worked, is it?How can we accept the death of a loved one, a disease?who apparently doesn’t seem curable, spending years in chemotherapy, how to settle for a spouse’s betrayal, a broken relationship?It is not possible to list how many problems and sufferings, how many pains and wounds are left open in each. Only passers-by know.
- After many years.
- I could see that thinking about what happened.
- Asking God why and why.
- Would not solve anything.
On the contrary, when we refuse to accept inevitable situations, when we hesitate to recover from this beautiful journey that life has given us and left us face down, we lock ourselves in the dark, feed on bitterness, breathe rebellion and live together. for sadness and loneliness.
You want to live the days of your life like this?So accept that it hurts less! I won’t tell you to forget what happened because I know it’s impossible, but you can choose to get over it and start over again. Don’t give yourself up in a sea of mud, don’t drown in your sorrows, don’t remember what someone did or didn’t do for you. Focus on your life!Every day we have is an opportunity to start over again, try something new and get over it!Accept the situations of your life, live one day at a time and continue!
“It doesn’t matter what they’ve done to you. What matters is what you do with what they did to you. ?? Jean-Paul Sartre?”
Text written by Irailde Santana. Learn more about the author’s work by accessing his Facebook page.