Sometimes changes caused by disappointments can be irreversible. This fact may not be negative, but it will always depend on the direction in which transformation occurs in our hearts and minds.
I must add that if the changes caused by disappointments are negative, they can be fatal to our own being, and that’s not good at all.
- Disappointments can cause us to lose all hope of a better life.
- A better future.
- Or a happy and joyful present.
- And it will affect us in such a way that we will lose our perspective.
Take, for example, a loving disappointment. Heart-related disappointments are often very harsh, so much so that many people never overcome them. Obviously, a romantic disappointment can cause so much pain in our heart and soul that we can close ourselves so as not to suffer another similar disappointment again.
However, after thinking and expanding all the good things that love offers and all the bad things that involve a rupture or depression, is it really worth completely closing a relationship that didn’t work out?
If you ask me, I’d say not with conviction. Love has brought a lot of happiness into my life, and some pains and disappointments. However, what I experienced and felt in love far exceeds the disappointment of a rupture.
For this reason, loving disappointments should be seen as a temporary failure, which will make you stronger, wiser and more patient, but you should never become a closed person to return to another similar adventure, The World You Turn to. the back is wonderful.
Disappointments in love can not only cause irreversible negative changes in our mind and heart, can betrayal cause great pain?
Imagine having a best friend that you blindly trust. You tell him everything and you tell him all the details. If you have a problem, talk to him and he’s always ready to help you get off the rock.
Is there more pain in the world than the betrayal of a best friend?It’s certainly hard to find. Although it can be added that any betrayal, whether by a loved one, family member, boyfriend or loved one, is always very painful.
But we must not allow this to let us fall into the abyss of the constant insecurity and mistrust of all, otherwise we will be very unhappy people.
The human being needs to trust others, feel safe embraced by the people he loves most, take refuge among his relatives who care for him, otherwise he will fall into depratic, unpleasant, insurized, malevolent and negative attitudes.
We must never close the door to the arrival of new people in our lives, the fact that you have already been betrayed should not cause you to completely change your attitude, as you will fall into a state of permanent sadness, from which it is very difficult to escape.
Unfortunately, sometimes it seems that we live in an unfounded society where constant disappointments are a majority, and it is difficult to find healthy and sincere people who really deserve our trust.
However, a new trend is beginning to emerge, more humanistic and closer to the goodness of the human being. It is increasingly powerful and notorious, and connects directly with the empowerment of all the good that men have.
While it is not easy to see beyond the constant bad news and discouragement caused by a very competitive, aggressive and ambitious society, this new attitude of kindness and solidarity with those who have suffered disappointments is here, and it is here to stay.
This same project of A Mind é Maravilhosa is a clear example of all that human beings can give to others, without asking for anything in return, simply because they want to help.
So don’t let your disappointments be the way forward, because you will constantly lose your way, be yourself, work for positive change and trust those who deserve it, because even if they seem invisible, these people are among us.