No matter how much pain you’ve endured, you should always remember that everything comes to our time and pace, and that in the end everything happens, everything comes and everything changes.
To do this we lack patience, time and reflection, although they are not easy to achieve, they are not impossible, the day comes when everything that happened will be just a collection of memories that led to a lot of learning.
- Absolutely everything that happens to us has a beginning and an end.
- Even if something negative happens.
- Don’t despair.
- Even if your life is turbulent.
- And if you’re in a comforting phase remember that you need to make the most of it.
- And keep good memories.
Those who are patient are not short of anything, among other reasons, it is because the goal of patients is to get ahead and take advantage of events, devour experiences, take on changes and not let the present escape.
We all hope at some point that the clock hands dial faster or that the calendar sheets pass prematurely, but over time we are forced to reflect on the transcendence of what is happening to us and what we want to happen.
In this sense, there is a Chinese proverb that contains in itself a highly therapeutic teaching: “If something has a solution, why bother? If something has no solution, why should you?”
It is true that even if everything happens, there will always be something that will remain about what happened, and almost always, knowing the circumstances we go through permeates something of what we can call our essence.
When our worries are excessive and the tension becomes almost unbearable, we must repeat that everything passes and everything changes, how can I be calm?
There is no magic solution to every problem, but we can always have strategies to help us solve our problems in the best way possible. First let’s think about the kind of concerns we may have: