This is the story of any girl. An anonymous girl, why can there be more than one?A girl who fell in love with the one she thought was the best man in the world: like a fairy tale, a Prince Charming, so she decided to become her princess.
To achieve this, she gave up her freedom, her decision-making ability, her smile, her friends and her family, in exchange for what she thought was love, she gave her life: she put herself at the mercy of a selfish heart that thought she owned everything, including people.
- It was a day like any other in the office.
- He was at his desk working quietly until a colleague approached him to break the news.
- Our daughter wasn’t used to calling the comments.
- He knew that his peers were exaggerated and that gossip was more about novelty than reality.
When he saw it, he realized he was wrong, he was a brown man with hazel eyes and a captivating smile, he wasn’t just any guy, he was the perfect man and, coincidentally, this perfect man took the same subway line. like her And that’s how they met.
Falling in love is not a conscious act, it is a feeling that ends gradually, a feeling that begins with the dream of meeting someone you enjoy with your eyes, but who gradually conquers your heart, the eyes can be misleading, but the heart is always true.
The perfect man was also attracted to her and did not think twice before asking for her phone, waited for her to take the subway together, fearing that at some point the trip would need him and that he would not be there. That’s when he asked for an appointment. It was very romantic, so much so that everything around him seemed like a dream.
Within a few days, shortly after she said goodbye, she sent messages to the girl as if she saw the reflection of the end of the world during her absence, everything was sweet and sweet. They hugged, said goodbye, turning that hug into a sense of nostalgia. She felt like the luckiest woman in the world, because of all the women she knew, she had chosen her.
Sometimes my best friend cares about the messages she writes, says that deep down her words have an anxiety that she doesn’t like, I think it’s very romantic that she wants to be with me all the time, she’s my prince on the white horse and I think if she knows where I am, she can save me from any danger.
The other day I was a little jealous because he saw me talking to another colleague, but it’s just a show of love, it shows that I’m important to him, he asked me if I was attracted to my colleague, because I was laughing. with him in the same way as when we first met, I inadvertently gave him a lot of candor, so I promised that I would never act so openly again, I don’t want to lose you even if you stop loving me mainly because he takes good care of me.
Yesterday he called me and the phone was busy, he was talking to my best friend, but he got jealous again thinking he was talking to another man, he started to control himself a little bit, but he’s so kind and good, and he does everything. this because he loves me so much, I have to forgive him these things. He cares so much about me because he loves me so much. If you still want to have me, you’ll never leave me.
My friend was angry because she didn’t understand her attitude, the perfect man said it was because she was jealous, because she didn’t have anyone who loved her, she says she has a bad influence on me and that she puts useless things on her. my head The truth is that she’s jealous and I’m afraid you both don’t get along.
I went out with my friends last night. He got angry, called me a whore, said he was in a very low-fat outfit, like he was looking for another guy, and I don’t dress much with him. My outfit was a little bold and I understand why she got on. angry I don’t want to lose him, much less for that nonsense.
I don’t go out like this anymore
My friends don’t have boyfriends and maybe they can dress like that, but like me, I can’t help respecting that, in fact, if he did the same thing, I’d be upset too, they have to understand that I can” . I don’t go out like this anymore, and if you don’t understand, it’s because they’re not my real friends.
I’m afraid I’m going to lose him. He’s getting more and more upset, his demands are increasing, he’s becoming more vulnerable every day, he doesn’t like the way I dress or smile at people, he doesn’t want me to wear a skirt or a neckline, even though I like that.
I’m afraid anything I do will keep me away from him, from the perfect man, from which I’m lucky enough to have by my side. That would support anything but that.
You’ve already told me that I love him little compared to his love for me, how do I make him understand that he’s my Prince Charming?I’m just a girl, terrified of losing the perfect guy I had a chance to meet I’d be stupid if in the end she left me and was so lucky to find him, a person as imperfect as me. with someone as good as him.
Today he yelled at me on the street, he said he was doing very well, he was laughing a little with a shoe salesman because he was telling me a joke, he was nice, he didn’t want to flirt, plus I laughed a lot because I knew he was looking at me. He reproached me for refusing what he said, but the truth is, I don’t understand why he’s doing this to me.
I’d like to say all that to someone. I need to talk about it, but he managed to stay away from the people I trusted, kept me out of my life with false recriminations and accusations.
Also, I don’t want him to get mad, I’m a bit lost. I guess love is that; It is loving someone so much that the fear of losing them leads you to do those crazy things, even if you know that you don’t have to. I don’t know, just as I don’t know what it’s like to really love.
I was afraid, I was very scared and without even touching me it didn’t affect me, pushed the table and closed the door at once, I was shaking, we were arguing again because you saw me talking to my boss?. You don’t understand.
I don’t know what to do. I love him and I’m lucky someone so perfect loves me. But I’m afraid of your violent attacks, I don’t want to get hurt. I think maybe I should quit my job to make it more relaxed because now we live together and we don’t need to make that much money anymore.
It’s not love, it’s manipulation, control and dependence. No one has the right to tell you how to dress, do your makeup or talk to you. No one has the right to make you tremble for fear of being aggressive, even if they don’t. It doesn’t affect you.
What has been reported here is a scene of psychological abuse, there has been no physical violence here, but it can happen over time, physical aggression occurs when a woman depends on the perpetrator and is convinced that she is doing something wrong, that it is impossible for the man to be guilty.
Even physical aggression may never happen, but violence doesn’t have to exist in the same way. The woman is alone, at the mercy of the man, and will do whatever he says. She’ll stop being herself to rely entirely on the man. He’s already managed to control it, hasn’t he? Physically so she can get more attached to him.
This is the story of any girl, can you choose a name for her?Because unfortunately it represents many of them. It may be your sister, your friend or your neighbor, it can be any woman who thinks she’s in love, but she’s actually controlled and humiliated.
Don’t close your eyes, help her see the reality that exists far from her thinking, even if you want to get it out of your life, don’t do it, even if sometimes you witness how it gets to the edge of the cliff. , don’t think it’s his fault, remember he can always count on you. Convince her to ask for help, to call the police, a friend?you need help getting out of this situation and you won’t be able to do it alone.