Often life is hard and hurts with all the force it has: it seems to place us before the adversity of a deep eternal storm, which takes away all the emotional balance and tests us.
At first you get the feeling that something bad is going to happen and that your sky is cloudy, soon after you discover that it was true: you find yourser in front of a wind that squeezes you against the walls and fills you with anguish. and even hail.
“When you get out of this storm, won’t it be the same person who went in there?”Murakami
When you are in a moment of discouragement, the storm forces you to make a decision: receive it as an opportunity to face adversity until the storm passes or you fall, defeated, into eternal rain. You must face adversity with all your might, it could and continue.
It’s quite understandable that if you’re in the middle of a storm all you can think of is the cold, the darkness, the moisture your body feels, yet you shouldn’t forget that even in the darkest circumstances, the sky always holds. sunlight behind the clouds.
This may seem pretentious or difficult to implement, especially if the situation is very complicated, however, the light always manages to enter through the cracks, and the more your heart feels, the more cracks it has.
“Adversity is an opportunity for virtue. ” ? Seneca-
For this reason, many have said that adversity is an opportunity to suffer inside and learn why things happen; it can also be a way to discover something in you that you didn’t even know you owned.
A very important fact can happen to some people and it can increase your pain and, perhaps, you are part of it: even at times when you feel very bad, paradoxically, you are not able to express your feelings or escape with others. . Is it a problem because? Getting rid of feelings means getting rid of them and letting others help us.
If a loved one has passed away and left you in a great void, if your relationship is over, if you have a disease that interferes with your life, whatever the reason for the adversity that causes them so much, it is good to share this with someone who is willing to listen and help.
“Adversity has the gift of awakening talents that would remain asleep if there was only prosperity. “Horatio-
If you find this too complicated, you can redirect your feelings to another activity that allows you to outsource them: writing, drawing, dancing or any other activity you enjoy and calm down, remember that what the mouth is incapable of saying, the body points it out and manifests itself in health problems.
As a rule, storms frighten us and make us seek refuge and refuge, in real life the exact same thing happens: the greater the adversity that afflicts us and the abyss that awaits us, the greater the desire to find a place where we can feel safe.
The desire for warmth on the coldest days of our lives is what makes us bravely face fear: only in this way can we realize the strength that we really have in us. us reasons to live.
The time comes when you have to fight, break with the armor that paralyzes you and jump so as not to fall with the fear and pain of emptiness, then you will have faced adversity and deserved the strength that you did not think you had, but that belongs to you, remember: those who face adversity deserve strength, and that is why it belongs to you.
“I had the privilege of feeling that I had lost everything
I was lucky enough to find out what I really needed.
Sadness is sometimes peace.
-Sara Bueno-