“The elephant does not escape because it is subject to a stake as it is very small”
It was Jorge Bucay who brought us this excellent phrase as a reflection to make us reflect on all these failures of the past, those currents that were somehow connected to our being and our spirit to prevent us from moving normally. Experiences that, far from enriching us, have blocked us in the past, making us more cautious, perhaps even less confident. Sometimes it is our own education, the inheritance of parents, a home or even a culture that has placed these invisible barriers, which prevent us from walking freely. to move forward on the horizon that we really want for ourselves. Chains, however small, are always heavy. But the elephant and we can and we have every right to break them.
- Sometimes the fear of failure is so intense that we don’t even dare take a step.
- What would we become if.
- For example.
- We changed jobs?Or if we risk traveling to another country?What if our marriage is very unhappy and we dare.
- Perhaps out of fear.
- To leave the relationship?There are many factors that intertwine when you step on and break the chains that hold us in one.
- One way or another.
- Insecurity.
- Fear.
- Uncertainty.
- Lack of self-confidence?.
Sometimes we simply tolerate our daily lives, living in our little comfort zone, but dreaming of “what could be. “And, as Albert Einstein once said, fear of failure will deter us from trying something, pushing us to do the same. things to achieve different results, but if we really want to achieve our happiness and live our lives the way we want, we must begin to have more confidence in ourselves, we must love each other a little more and feel not only that we are capable, but that we deserve it.
Take a moment to think about how many times opportunities have passed your door. Why didn’t you squeeze them when you really wanted them? Wasn’t that your moment? Wasn’t it the time or wasn’t it for you? You should start asking questions like this, we all know that life is very complex, that sometimes we are not alone on this ship, that there are many things that condition us before we can make a decision, but it is always important to establish a set of priorities , to understand what is most important to you at all times.
What will become of you in the near future?Try to think about it, visualize it?If the image you see in your mind doesn’t suit you, you should start moving, pushing the chains that join you to the future you really deserve. Self-confidence is definitely the first Value to develop. We all have a range of talents and skills that make us unique and special, we are all wonderful in our peculiarities, we look at each other, we find them, we look in the mirror and convince ourselves that you are able to change.
Fear and insecurity are the steps you must begin to take to reach the top you really deserve, because life is a great adventure worth living the way we really want, even if it seems almost impossible to break these chains, remember that you are as tall and powerful as this elephant Is it up to you?