Sometimes we do not seek solutions to unresolved problems and let the outstanding issues become endless suffering, there is no way out of who we are, projects and dreams, the other generation and the past are blamed, but not the contribution itself to the disorder they complain about.
Have you ever stopped to think that you could change this way of doing business?What should I give up, what am I saying, what does it belong to me?What belongs to the other one?
- In addition to inheriting customs.
- We legitimized some of our parents’ limiting opinions and beliefs much more than we thought.
- Take a minute to think and you may notice that you often repeat certain learned behaviors and reproduce them in your daily life to make decisions.
In a way, this is what you expected, but for your personal transformation/improvement, everything your parents have done and that suited them won’t be good for you. Keep what makes sense and add value to your life today. Get rid of what’s not yours, that is, what they’ve deposited on you, without fear.
You don’t have to use what’s not yours just to support your dysfunctional family. The solution you already have. It remains to be thought about how that can give a different perspective on the situation, you and life.