When some people who have known me for more than 10 years talk about my life, many say that I have bad luck, others say that I make a lot of bad decisions. There are those who consider me a Phoenix. Do you know the legend?
In short, the Phoenix is a bird of Greek mythology that, upon death, enters self-combustion and, after a while, is reborn from its own ashes. Another characteristic of the phoenix is its strength that allows it to carry very heavy loads in flight, with legends in which it even carries elephants, being able to become a firebird. Did it have bright red, gold and purple feathers, and was it the same size or was it larger than an eagle?Did the long life of the phoenix and the dramatic rebirth of the ashes make it a symbol of immortality and spiritual rebirth?
- I went through the victimization phase: “Oh my God.
- Everything bad only happens to me”; ?Why me??; ?What about me??; “Why have I attracted so many bad people to my life?”Then I had the guilt phase: “Did this person do this to me because I deserved it?”Did I miss this or that because I deserved it? This suffering is due to the fact that I left her.
- Et cetera.
- But then.
- Every time these thoughts tried to steal my head.
- I remembered the friend who had nicknamed me Phoenix and those who.
- Every day.
- Remind me that I’m one.
But this time, instead of being alone, I sought support, help from those who have more knowledge on two topics that can and will change your life for the better, so to speak: psychology and spirituality. Yes, spirit and spirit. I entered the open body in these two worlds, which until recently I thought were irrelevant, and I began to discover how and why things happened, what signs life gave me, what I had to learn from the people around me.
One of the first things I did was learn about gratitude. Everyone walks the road differently. It was mine. Even indebted, ending another destructive and tumultuous relationship, beside me were the people who considered me the bird Help me, comfort me, listen, protect?What did the Universe want to tell me about this? I understood it as such :?Stop complaining and start thanking.
So from the moment I get up to bedtime, thank you for everything. Having a home, physical and mental health, true friends, love for my family, joy of living, opportunities, knowledge?Then I began to forgive. And the first person who needs to be forgiven is yourself. Can’t you blame yourself for other people’s attitudes, for other people’s bad habits, for someone who abused you or didn’t treat you the way you expected?It’s just not your fault.
So I started looking at the signs: if something happens several times and the end is always the same, something has to be changed, right? So instead of being the victim, I went to study the beginnings, the means and the ends . without realizing it, I repeated the actions of my ancestors. Repeat, repeat? It was normal for me, I thought I did not deserve happiness, I was ungrateful with everything I received and, in a way, everything was blocked and ruined because I did not believe I deserved everything I received.
And then I started taking care of my spiritual side, I was very attached to the team. Branded clothes, fashionable hair, I won’t even say how many pairs of shoes I have and I’ve never worn. I met an institution and cleaned the closet.
I gave up a lot of things that made me spend, even if I didn’t have them, just because I had them, I walked away from people who were only around when they received something in return, but I wasn’t angry with Have I replaced grudges and suffering with prayers with forgiveness?You don’t know what made the other person what it is today or what problems it’s going through to do it. Just trade your anger for a prayer for that person. see the results, as I’ve seen.
I’ve stopped living in the past. And think all the time about the future: what will I eat tomorrow, what will I wear tomorrow, how much money will I have tomorrow?As I write this article, I think about this article and how good it makes me write these things. , telling my story and eventually encouraging other people to see life from a different perspective. You never get out of evil without learning anything from him. Look at the signs.
Find out what they are and invest in them. Don’t think about how much money you’ll get, do what makes you happy. Which makes you feel good. And so, if it makes you feel good and you put love on it, the results will come. If you’ve spent your life getting involved with the wrong people, get to the bottom of it. where this extreme need comes from, even unconsciously, and control it. You’re capable. I do it, you can do it.
Think more before you act and talk. A word, a gesture, an attitude taken at the wrong time can ruin your work, your life, a relationship. It helps people more. Believe me: the more heart helps, the more heart you will receive. This is how the Universo. No speak ill of others or participate in those conversations. Don’t judge. Just like doing good, you become good, hurting yourself becomes bad. When someone comes to talk to you badly about someone, change the subject, give them a compliment. Maybe that’s what she needs, it’s working!
Changes never happen overnight, I’m living proof of it. Our mind is conditioned to act the same way over and over again, but when you realize it, everything changes. And all you have to do is thank, I’ve said it in previous articles and I repeat it: therapy and spirituality are the key to a life of conquest, freedom and happiness.
I wish you all the best! Practice the steps I mentioned above and soon I will tell you the rest, you will be surprised at the inner strength you have, and you will never complain again, you will talk about people, you will judge, you will blame or blame others, you will keep complaints (you are aging, you know?) Be the Phoenix!
See you later. Namaste