Many times I felt that it was not a priority for others, I even decided not to see it and convinced myself otherwise, sometimes it is easier to ignore than to accept that the other person does not give us enough importance.
I have justified situations in which I have been replaced by someone else, I also justified negative behaviors such as criticism, thinking that they were the result of stress or concern, in the end I realized that I could not go on like this and decided that from today my motto will be “I am my priority and I am no longer your choice”.
- The many times I’ve heard that my new attitude is negative has convinced me that I’m doing things right.
- By the way.
- The only ones who complain are the ones who came after me and disappeared again.
At first I hesitated and thought they might be right, I quickly realized that there is nothing more satisfying than loving me, taking care of me, giving me pleasure and doing what I want, sometimes it involves being alone, but it is not a negative thing.
In fact, when I became my priority, new people appeared in my life, you’ll find that you attract people who are really interested in you, they won’t be with you all day because they have lives and dreams to fulfill, but that’s when they should be. It’s very rewarding to start living alone and being just a second place in your life!
The hardest part of my priority is recognizing that some people just use you. When they need something, they turn to you. You think it’s important, but only when you’re interested in what they can get.
Sometimes this includes family and people you thought were friends. It hurts a lot because they have an important place in your heart. When I started to consider myself my priority, I received a lot of complaints and criticism from these people.
When did I start using the word?In response to their requests, more than one person became angry, did not seem to understand my behavior, so I realized that they were a burden to my life.
In the end, I put a barrier between these people and me, the hardest part is when it comes to a family member, because it will always be part of your life, the difference is that I now say?When I want to and I’m not worried about complaints.
The main reason my value was just one more option before was my insecurity, I didn’t think I had so many qualities or reasons that made me important, all the time I spent criticizing myself and hurting myself more than any other attitude. .
When I decided to be my priority I began to look for my qualities, it was not easy at first, but once I accepted, they began to appear, I began to notice things that I did not think were important and I began to write them. .
This has a snowball effect. When you find a quality and accept it, another one begins to appear and so on. Don’t think you lack qualities. Chances are you’ll need to pay more attention to who you really are.
I have to accept that it’s hard to think about the past and not feel some nostalgia, I miss the people who left my life. Sometimes I want to go back and go on as I was, but soon I remember how I felt and see that I am happier now, of course, not everything is perfect, but is life too complex in itself?I feel like I’m not, important to the person next to me.
Once I realized it was just an option, a lot of people left, some were distraught and some were irritated. Of all of them, none of them came back to try to fix the problems.
I guess everybody has a moment in our lives and those people’s lives are completely over. I don’t think there’s any reason to restart Friendships. In fact, I wouldn’t want to be anyone’s choice for the rest of my life.