If attitude is the most important thing we can use, make sure no one gets rid of your lens or sorts it as?Impossible?your assets and your buttons of hope. Don’t let them unbutton your desires by making you believe that “you are useless, you cannot achieve and you do not deserve”. Our attitude represents a very large percentage of the total influence we have on what is happening to us. Don’t let them steal your most beautiful dress.
One thing that certainly draws attention to many of the self-help books we find today is that they try to guide us to success, to the outside victory where sooner or later we will be recognized by others for our courage, our attitudes and our abilities. However, it would be interesting to note that more than an ‘external success’, what we want to achieve is inner peace.
“A happy person does not have a certain set of circumstances, but a set of attitudes. -Hugh Downs-
Attitudes add up, that’s for sure. To show that we can do a specific task is very rewarding, it is true, however, what attitudes are because they are the ones that make the difference between a good day and a bad day, they are the ones that give us optimism when everything seems to be going well. it is our attitudes that allow us to believe in ourselves even when others dare to belittle us.
“I have value YES, I know how to do YES, I deserve YES”, these are certainly the three roots that should feed our daily attitude, which we must take at breakfast every day. However, sometimes the negative, defeatist or even the toxic mindset of some people around us can weaken this golden perspective into something hazy.
The editorial offer of books related to happiness and personal development doubles each year; however, WHO warns that depression will soon be the world’s leading health and disability problem. At the same time, we educate our children to master science, mathematics and technology, and even in the language of programming, but do we forget to teach them to tolerate frustration, to face their emotional worlds, their anger, their sadness?
No one tells us what this story is about about attitude or how to do that “believe in yourself” thing. We don’t know why the only thing we were taught at school was to know how to identify the subject and preacher of a prayer. , find the lowest common multiple or believe that it is enough to be good, respectful and have good grades for happiness to arise on its own. , as a promise of a contract that we signed as children.
However, sooner or later we realize that our good intentions are not enough to succeed, we realize that if someone doesn’t believe us, we’re going to go out like a candle blown away by the cold wind.
We also realize that society offers us a good education, but it delays our opportunities by immersing ourselves in a waiting room where nothing happens and here we meet other people who are also waiting, other people who infect us with their weakened hopes, their defeatism, their self-esteem vacuum.
Sooner or later, we realize that we are “sick”, infected by discouragement and passivity, obscured by a spirit that has been carried away by the autopilot of other people’s negativity.
In the end, we realized that attitude is nothing more than a personal decision, that it takes us out of barren and devastated gardens, where nothing grows, to remind us that we do not deserve to be there, that we must gather courage, energy and courage. to find what we really need.
It is often said that a positive attitude will not solve all our problems, but that it will annoy people who, with a square mindset and an acute perspective, do nothing but put barbed wire in our dreams and cause storms on sunny days.
“Attitudes are contagious, is it worth catching me with yours?- Dennis and Wendy Mannering-
In any case, what needs to be taken into account is that attitude is a personal value that needs to be worked on every day, because at least we expect it can weaken or, worse, weaken by the harmful influence of others. .
Therefore, it is never too difficult to remember which three components support, constitute, and nurture strong attitudes:
The last element that constitutes our attitudes is the challenge Is this something we cannot overlook because life will always face ten, one hundred, two hundred challenges ahead each day?We must face these challenges as challenges we have learned to invest in. our personal growth, in our baggage of life, moments when we feel true protagonists of the same well-being that we have achieved.