Attitude is the most powerful force we have, but we often ignore it. We do our best to keep this force in the background, as we strive to blame others for what happens to us, complain about all the problems and feel victims of circumstance.
The question we have to answer is: what attitude do we have towards life ? reflection on this question and whether our attitude is beneficial or not will allow us to be much more aware of why little or nothing in our lives works as well as we would. Even if we open our eyes wide, we will realize that the difficulties are not as horrible as we see them.
- “Solving our lives is easy.
- Those of us who do this difficult task.
- Does it all depend on our attitude?-Anonymous-.
We can choose how to deal with circumstances, at least we still have control over that. Attitude is the most powerful force we have. Thanks to him, we can change what’s happening or at least our way of looking at things. Do we accept or reject?
Let’s say we have a partner or companion who keeps complaining, so we less and less like his attitude, we live in bitterness. She’s a good person, but we’re no longer happy in our relationship and we stay there, without making any decisions, in the meantime, we’re trying to change our partner or partner, we’re blaming him for the relationship going like this. way, that the bond is weakening.
By reading this, from our point of view, we would know exactly what to do. We have two options: accept the person as he is and love inadvertently that he changes. Or we can end the relationship and give the other the chance to be happy with someone else too.
As we see, attitude is the most powerful force because it allows us to get out of a situation that we do not like, all this, make a decision and change ourselves, do not try to make the other change, this technique can also be applied to other kinds of circumstances: when you have a doubt, when you are out of work, when a disease appears or when a loved one dies.
Complaining is useless. To tell heaven how unfair this situation is, to victimize and shut up without doing anything either, there is no point in looking for culprits where there are none, nor does it make sense to refuse to accept what it is simply, nor to ask meaningless questions such as “why me?”or “I did something wrong. “
“What we cannot avoid, we can only accept. -William Shakespeare-
Attitude is the most powerful force that drives change, decision-making, new directions, thanks to it we can find our happiness or maintain it, because we must not forget that we must find happiness in oneself, whatever the contribution of the outside: sometimes you will succeed, sometimes you will not succeed.
Thanks to the power of our attitude, we can understand that there are no limits and that we do not need to be overwhelmed by circumstances, however serious a situation may seem, such as layoffs or debts, we can always get out of this bad weather and overcome obstacles. It’s a vital inertia.
Sometimes our emotions stifling that ray of hope, dramatizing what’s happening too much. Sooner or later, however, there will be no alternative but to accept the situation and move on. Why not do this from the beginning?
It is important to trust yourself and not always stay in the comfort zone, if we do the comfort zones will decrease rather than increase, if we stay in them we will see how this state of comfort fades, until it gradually goes out. ceases to be “comfort. ” We’ll start to feel trapped by the circumstances.
We have no reason to be afraid of change. Changes are opportunities, new beginnings, new paths, something we’ll leave behind, that’s true. But what is to come can also bring us something new if we have the patience and intelligence to leave the situation in our favor, an opportunity to learn, overcome, mature and realize that we can face all the problems that arise in our lives.
We must not forget that attitude is the most powerful force for change, we can make decisions to get out of a situation that we do not like, we can accept what we do not like, stop denying it and move on. The reflection of the future gives us a more complicated picture than we really expect. With attitude, we choose something as simple and vital as positioning ourselves in front of this image.
A small change in attitude can make a big difference, as it can turn a difficult situation into something that can be overcome and a painful situation in an opportunity to strengthen.