I’d get up every morning in the hope that something would fall from the sky. Smiles, eternal love, spectacular trips, dreams come true, personal satisfaction . . . But nothing happened; my desperation grew when I realized that nothing was changing.
Then I realized that without realizing it, I lacked opportunities and forgot to act to achieve my goals.
- Then I decided to start accepting my emotions and hopes; without pain.
- Without emotional confrontations or arrests.
- I began to cultivate patience and the ability to think.
I woke up one day and, not knowing what to wear, I decided to be happy.
I was dressed in joy; It’s my lucky dress, my dress
Any day is a good day to start, however, everything in life has its moment. We cannot ask for the impossible; we have to be prepared.
Turns out once you’ve suffered enough, you realize it’s all very simple: you can’t be happy if you keep fighting yourself, it’s this inner battle that destroys you.
Isn’t that worth it, do you stop crying?Is it time to learn that life is hard, don’t you have to be like this?
Don’t people realize it’s perfectly normal to be sad when something’s wrong?Should we smile even if we don’t want to? Feeling good has become a sad and exhausting duty.
Well, it’s not all black and white, are there other colors: gray, pink, yellow?
It’s time to realize that all emotions play a role in our lives; its role is not to make us suffer, but to help us grow and better understand our world.
It’s a spiral of guilt. If we are not happy we feel guilty and strange, it gets us into a greater abyss of negativity because we do not know how to act to achieve what we have proposed, the problems seem to be greater than they really are and reinforce the obligation to “feel good and not worry anymore”.
It’s crazy to try to impose feelings and emotions. They appear for some reason, and if we take them into account, they can teach us many things that will help us live better in our day-to-day life.
However, if we decide not to pay attention to it, we could end up in a “deadlock. “
“Wisdom is the art of accepting what cannot be changed, of changing what can be changed, and of perceiving mainly the difference between one and the other. “
There are thousands of theories and recipes that talk about happiness, however, we still don’t know what ingredients are needed for this recipe.
What is it?A degree of wisdom? Actually, nobody knows exactly what it is. Happy people say it’s something we have to accept and give up; it’s a feeling of peace and joy.
It doesn’t matter how we define it; everyone will do it their own way. Happiness is an individual thing, and each person has their personality and genetic burden.
Therefore, we must accept that pain is an inevitable part of life and that peace will come when we learn to let things happen. Let yourself be yourself, without fear of accusations. Act with your heart, always thank and expect the best of life.