“If we take away from our desires those who belong to others, we would have little left. Will the same thing happen with our fears?
In the world in which we live, we are continually attacked by a movement of communicative overexposure and systematic exaltation of the ego.
- Everyone wants to have great theories about things.
- Any act of logic.
- Kindness or altruism appears on social media or on an internet portal.
- As if kindness and civic attitude should be publicly recognized.
- As if such an action could not be left private.
- Sphere as an individual enjoyment of what the person decides to do.
Are there many sports, politics and art professionals increasingly interested in becoming?Or simply in “people of public interest. “
A few centuries ago, among the Greeks, the desire for immortality was based on performing a heroic act that would survive in time. But they were interested in the action itself, and the ego was only nurtured when its legitimate value was recognized for having developed an intellectual or strategic activity that deserved it.
Today, everyone is interested in public recognition of their thoughts, actions or the most normal processes of human life (the most spectacular marriage, the most loving mother). A crowd of d? Friends and followers follow every detail of their lives.
“Is it time to show up, isn’t it?
They say that happiness is not real if it is not shared, but it is shared more and more with people and, curiously, it seems that we have less life and we are more removed from face-to-face relationships, the comfort of a business and a good conversation. . , in which heroic acts are not continually cited. A warm intimacy, with secrets of the heart, a delicious intimacy that can only be shared with a few people.
Some rejoice in all this false burden of appearances, ego, to say the words that others want to hear, and choose an art in disuse: that of insignificance.
This is not a forced triviality, only some people get to a point in their life where they are tired of impressing and impressing them and want to share things for real.
They choose to learn, cultivate the small daily details that give them satisfaction, without anxiety or desire to be somewhere else and at another time. They want to graduate, they want to read, they want to watch movies that aren’t recommended until they’re there. satisfied, they want to have their own customs full of delicacy and firmness.
They care about being, not looking
They are people that we do not usually meet, but when we are with them, we do not need to share what has been lived, because the experience is so intense that there is no time or interest in introducing ourselves to others. they find it attractive.
They just look at it every time in a more perceptive, suspicious way of the whole halo?Perfection?clarify. They like to listen and think. The pleasure of insignificance is already in literature, through the brilliant writer Milan Kundera, who has provided us with countless literary wonders.
Once again, this author asks for calm, lightness of being, even to face the most complex problems.
A recommended reading for those who are overwhelmed by so much information, especially irrelevant information in their own lives.
Perhaps there are few, but they find calm and more pleasure, and that their lives have some privateity, that their person has not completely lost their essence in the face of so much insistence on contemplating the ego of others.
Keep a few things to yourself; Perhaps when this face-to-face relationship that you hope to achieve so much, it no longer has magic or mystery, because you have already offered everything to others and you have nothing to share in the truth. Learn to be for yourself, not to show others.