The phrase used in the title of this article is one of my favorites, that doesn’t mean you need to change your essence or who you are, because you should be proud of yourself, but I think it’s important to think about what you give others and how it affects what you receive.
We all want positive influences on our lives. Of course, you’re also looking for friendships and relationships that inspire you, but are you a positive influence on other people’s lives?It may seem like a cliché, but you only get what you give.
“Admiring others is what makes us humble, because if we had no one to admire, would we fall into pride?”
Do you cultivate the habits you would like your life to dominate?
Positive and negative habits are contagious, as are negative thoughts. The good news is that personal growth, a positive lifestyle and happiness are also conveyed.
The way you live affects those around you, so it’s important to be the type of person you’d like to meet and include in your life.
The main habit to develop is learning to show your love for those around you. Most people won’t remember what they told you, but they won’t forget how they made you feel.
Show your love by guiding, supporting, accompanying whoever is with you.
Treating everyone with kindness is critical when you try to be the type of person you’d like to meet, there’s no group or feature that justifies abuse or disrespect.
Treat everyone with the same respect you would give your grandmother and the same patience you would have with your children.
Of course, this advice is not so simple when you meet someone who doesn’t arouse much sympathy, in this case he thinks you can’t change anyone just because you don’t like the way you are, avoid stress by accepting the person as they are and providing them with the support they need.
? If you want to be loved, love and be kind?
Resentment, hatred, and negative emotions are poison to the soul and harm everyone, learn to forgive those who have hurt you, and free yourself to continue your journey.
This is not to say that it is necessary to erase the past and forget it completely, in reality it is about to stop living with resentment and continue without pain, to live life to the fullest.
How would you like to surround yourself with bitter people or people who live in peace with you and those around you?
The less time you spend hating the offender, the more time you will have to appreciate and love your loved ones.
If you’re committed to doing something, do it! Don’t promise to do something out of your league.
It’s better to talk honestly from the beginning
Think about times when you were hurt by a lie, a mistake, or a bad act. If you don’t like being played with your feelings, don’t do the same with others.
“Life is nothing more than sailing on our little boat, crossing a sea of ever-changing but inexhaustible promises. How many of these promises do we remember?
It’s better to promise less and do more. Listen, hug, kiss, smile and follow who you love.
We all need to know that we are important to someone, so show your feelings, it is also important to pay attention to others so as not to disturb them when they need time alone.
Focus your energy to get the most out of yourself. Before you can expect someone to be your friend and accept them, you must love them.
What kind of person would you like to spend your time with?Who would you like to wake up with every morning?Could you be that person or do you need to change something? This can cause fear, but this process is ultimately very rewarding.