“I’m not as happy as I am. I don’t like my body. Don’t you like to see me?.
“I hate my teeth, my breasts, my hips. ” I’ve got extra kilos. “Since my pregnancy, I haven’t regained my form. “
“I never get close to others. ” I’m afraid I’ll be judged. “Do all my friends have a boyfriend except me?
That’s the dialogue we usually have with us. This way of speaking becomes a kind of self-buttoning that generates insecurities, lowers self-esteem and sacrifices self-love.
Now think, “What do you like about yourself?” Your eyes, your hair, your kindness, your unconditionality . . . I’m sure you’ll think of hundreds of things where your soul and your interior are the protagonists.
So why do we let the physical flaws we see in ourselves drive and destroy the beautiful things we have?
There are a multitude of factors behind our insecurities, we question each other so much that we can even get scared of them.
We are what we think and, with these beliefs, we put on a disguise that prevents the world from seeing us as we are, but there are times when the rest of the world even sees the beauty that we have in ourselves before us.
We can only see with the heart, because the essential is invisible to the eyes.
The most important thing is the soul, what’s under the clothes?The invisible. It has its space beyond the view with the naked eye. True beauty is inner beauty, the only one that does not spoil, the one that cannot be removed and that can only be seen looking with the eyes of the soul.
This is not measured by what can be seen with the naked eye, because true beauty is an attitude. We live worried about appearances, because we are not like the conventionalisms that imprison us that dictate us to be. This is what does not allow us to be, us to show the world our splendor.
The reality is that there is no makeup on the planet that can beautify an ugly heart, understanding this is extremely important to strengthen our self-esteem.
A beautiful interior is built by loving life and getting rid of negative absences and feelings; it’s about expanding our inner world, making it more extensive, eliminating emotional comfort and gathering your own reasons.
Outer beauty is just the charm of a moment, the appearance of the body is not always a reflection of the soul (Geroge Sand).
We have to think about the importance of loving each other, we do not need to make our exterior beauty with makeup and fashionable clothes, because true beauty is in ourselves.
Be kind, don’t let the pain harden you. Believe in your own beauty, which cannot be defined in words, and cultivate yourself in every detail. The secret is in you.