We often feel that our personal evolution is not going well and we feel the need to change everything, or at least a large part, without knowing exactly what.
I want to share my experience with you in this article, and start taking off this blind sale that we sometimes have ahead of us.
- The trajectory of life is more like curves than straight lines.
- You will agree that life is not based on pre-established rules.
- Nor on subjects that can be exhausted.
Life is based on learning and these assume failure, failure, moving forward, abandoning, forgetting or winning, so there is nothing wrong with leaving things unfinished: studies, relationships, or not respecting certain laws imposed by society such as that of a certain age, you have to have children, work, etc. ?
No one has any reason to judge you by what you do or don’t do. Remember, the only owner of your life is yourself.
You’ll be happy when you feel entitled to be yourself
Take the curve you’re in your life right now, and if there’s anything wrong with it, think, back up, find out what a clue can give you and take some time for yourself.
Time is worth gold, yes, but remember that if you do things without enjoying it and without being present, it’s no use.
Planning life is healthy. Thinking about the future is also: it allows us to create expectations, dreams, passions and above all, think about what the next step towards your dream will be and make it come true.
However, it is not recommended to plan constantly based on the decisions we have made in the past. Because first remember that you owe nothing to anyone, just you.
In doing so, you close, you think you owe something to someone, when in reality the fullness of life is based on duty only to yourself.
Fear of the unknown makes us stick to the places where we have already intervened and the decisions already made, but you will not let anyone down for not sticking to the agreed plan.
Try it and make a mistake. Simply taking a step into the unknown, life will reward you with the greatness of your soul.
Choosing the wrong person allows us to learn to be better and to let go. At this stage of personal relationships where unconditional love is the basis of everything, I would like to ask you a classic question: “Have you ever thought of being someone, however?worry about being with someone?”
Remember that love arises from the purity of feelings among human beings, not out of convenience, nor by the famous phrase “conflicts arise from affection”. First of all, you have to want to share life with yourself.
Using a romantic relationship to satisfy your own fears of not knowing how to deal with it out of ignorance or for not being prepared to face life is not fair.
Before giving your heart, be sure to grow as a person and be the best version of yourself.
When you find the right person, this personal growth will no longer be one but two: love. Give yourself time to mature and feel the loneliness, your greatness, and the gift of truly being you for it.
We improve the past by building the future. We build our existence through events and experiences, good or not so good, but never bad.
You know why? I like to tell myself that everything, absolutely everything, goes through something immensely good and I’m not one of those people who’s had an easy life, I assure you.
Learning to let go is the secret of a busy life, without bitterness or regret, because we learn by making mistakes, we never forget it.
You own and own your emotions, if you allow situations that make you feel bad about dominating yourself you will always be stuck at that moment and you will not move on and you will not feel free.
Share with others only to excel, never to forget. We live in the age of numbers, or rather of followers. Social media has created a system where you ‘either have so much or nothing’. And this, as in everything in life, has its good part is the “not so good” part. The number doesn’t represent who you are.
By comparing yourself to others, you’re just trying to be better than someone, when the truth is that they’re both better at sharing it with the world. We need to help each other, not compete.
Emotions are treasures, feel them and express them. We live immersed in a society in which we prefer the material and the tangible, rather than the magical and the intangible.
Emotions define us, they make us ourselves: unique and impossible to repeat
We will never feel a certain emotion with the same intensity as the person next to us, but we will have the ability to understand and empathize with it.
We are afraid to be honest and let our souls be discovered by what they will say, dare to live the greatness of emotions. Learn not to close in on them and share them with the world.
We don’t make our dreams come true for fear that they are invalid or not to deserve them, when we’re all here to realize them, settle for less than you have corrupts you