The art of being a mother is not taught in schools, neither inherited nor learned from books, was born as armor that covers and gives strength, as you never thought it would have inside.
To be a father, to be a grandmother, a grandfather, an uncle or an aunt is also to suddenly discover how a part of our essence takes shape and conquers our hearts, that’s wonderful. However, simply giving birth to a creature establishes an extremely strong and intimate bond between mother and child.
- To be a mother is to capture a love that you never thought existed and while you are clear that any woman can give birth.
- Do you know that your experience is unique.
- That you feel much more alive and that every day you are surprised at how great something can be so small?.
When a woman holds her child in her arms, she sometimes makes small pacts between herself and her child; in a low voice, and almost in a low voice, he promises to do everything possible to transform him into a happy person, to protect him from everyone. evil and support him every day of his life in every decision he makes.
Your heart has suddenly grown and, with it, your ability to love, is it a different and powerful love that will make you forgive what others do not forgive, and regardless of sleepless nights, all those hours of caring for them when they are sick, when they call you because they are afraid of the dark?
They’ll be children once in a lifetime, but you’ll always be their mother. And it is a covenant that you accept with immense serenity, understanding very well what it implies. Responsibility, because being a mother, being a father, is an adventure. that will always be worth it.
There are those who perceive “their moment. ” The moment they decide to be mothers because they feel it is time and because their personal situation allows it, in other cases it appears as an unforeseen event that is initially disconcerting, soon accepted and in the end appears as the best unforeseen. of our lives.
To be a mother is to be bound to your children by an invisible thread that cannot be thrown away. Is it like someone who wants to take a flower and annoys a star?
If there is one thing that many women (and parents) fear it is that they are missing something, do not do something right. Sometimes many of us have in mind the mistakes of our own parents, which we do not want to repeat:
It is clear that no one has the perfect manual of the good mother, of the good father, but what we must understand is that it is not about being the perfect mother, it is simply about being a mother, of being, and therefore it is convenient to apply these principles.
If there is one thing every mother wants for her children is her happiness, it is good to create a strong and meaningful bond from the first moment they reach the world.
Being a mother means, above all, bringing happiness so that tomorrow you too may be free, mature adult capable of giving happiness to others.
There are mothers who are surprised by the personality of their children, as if they wanted, in a way, to be exact copies of themselves or their parents, judge them and even blame them for some things aloud against others.
Children are not copies of their parents; Children are free creatures with their own unique traits and needs that adults must understand to encourage, encourage, and guide them on the path to happiness.
Being a mother also means accepting that children are who they are, holding hands in the best way, we will later promote your independence through accountability and the implications of decisions.
It’s not an easy task, but a life project where the bond you establish with your children will always be that incombustible engine that will give you strength, that will give you encouragement, because it will be worth it if you do it with love
Images courtesy of Claudia Tremblay.