Being good is not synonymous with stupidity, according to a survey of the Asturian Society of Psychiatry, being good is profitable because it brings us emotional well-being, human values act in this case as protective factors.
There are ten values applicable to all crops considered good: goodness, universalism, independence of thought, leading an exciting life, hedonism, personal achievement or success, more traditional power, and values such as security, conformity and tradition.
- Living a life according to the values of benevolence offers us protection against a society that shows an increasingly lower limit of tolerance to problems.
- There are more and more adaptive problems that end up generating pathologies.
- Such as depression.
- Anxiety.
- Stress.
- Etc.
“When every day is the same, it is because man has not noticed the good things that come into his life every time the sun crosses the sky. -Paulo Coelho-
The only thing we throw at others is a boomerang we get depending on how we act. When we seek the good of our neighbor, whether through thought, feeling, or action, we strengthen ties with others. Some connections that bring us comfortable emotions, protagonists of our own emotional well-being.
Most of what we give returns to us at a time or circumstance of life, often multiplied, so if it is to help, through love, we must know that by giving it, we will automatically open ourselves so that it is fulfilled in us the natural law through which the feeling is recycled again.
Building the common good is everyone’s business. Today there is a sense of indifference in society, people are tired and distrust prevails, we all feel that in many ways life has deceived us, beyond diagnosing the situation, the fundamental question is how to get out of it.
Society needs exemplary behaviors of each of its individuals: free from the judgment of people who have made mistakes in the past. This is the only honest way to ensure a better future.
What you give, you give it to yourself. What you don’t give is take yourself.
Every gesture of kindness is a demonstration of power. Being a supportive person does not imply greater tolerance for what is wrong, or agreeing with what is inappropriate, but rather a desire to do good. Remember, you’re as good as you can. you’ve done it in your life.
For Buddha, it is above all love kindness. Just as moonlight illuminates sixty times more than stars, loving kindness frees the heart sixty times more than all other conquests together. If we feed on kindness, fears and sadness will quickly starve.
Patience is the virtue that best describes the right people. It frames the ability to give freedom and margin of error to the people we love. The art of goodness seems to be a scarce good, but perhaps it is more common than we think.
The best way life rewards good people is gratitude, a compliment means that they recognize our efforts, affection means that our company is grateful to others, thank you means that we can be useful to others, whether with our own words, attitudes or behavior. The three elements at once (fulfilled, loving and grateful) allow us to have ever closer relationships.
“Nice people are wise because, consciously or unconsciously, they understand what it is; What do we do for others, do we do it for ourselves?