There is a moment in single life when you no longer want to fall in love with someone, the cycle of passion seems too repetitive and ephemeral, and the charm disappears, platonic affections become disinterested?Attraction.
At least that’s what happened to me. I got to a point where I got tired of falling in love and getting bored, because I wasn’t the person who complemented me or the feeling I was looking for.
- I decided to fall in love with the concept of love.
- Explain it.
- Without anyone else teaching me that and this period was a beautiful flowering of my love for myself.
- And a whole new perspective that changed my desire for a romantic relationship.
- I didn’t want to have someone to wake up my feeling of love anymore.
- But it was a confirmation of how I felt about myself.
What I wanted was an incarnation of the love I already felt when I was alone, so that I could live it in a richer and more complete way.
It is not about being in a relationship or not, but about letting the feeling dominate us, inspire us. If we want a partner, we have to, as the movies say, stop looking and let the Universe take care of it.
The Universe is responsible for bringing us a similar vibratory being, and the choices are many, however, we are all looking for that person, that being that is our peace, that makes us feel at home all over the world. here on Earth we call “the soul mate. “
This is the person who, of all options, brings more tranquility, the purest feeling of love, friendship and harmony. She is the one who, when the worst moments come, is there, and does not judge us, just listens and is present, is silent breathing.
He is the one who, when the physical attraction is not so enlightened, makes us shudder only with words, with small gestures brings us a smile, with a simple kiss improves our day.
That’s why there can be a lot of passions, but only one love. There are people who dispense with transitional business, waiting for the “such”. There are others who tire of the absence of this pure love in all who have known along the way and I have no choice but to go to the one who finally brings it.
But on the way to meet the perfect person for us, the one with which we want to spend our whole lives, we have all gone through this phase of solitude, of inner purification.
We eliminate all limiting beliefs and doubts and let our guard down for time to happen. For the person we chose to show up. The time has come for everyone to be alone, to discover themselves, and that moment can come sooner or later, even with marriage and children, the strength of the desire for pure love is so intense that sometimes everything can collapse on its way.
And are there people who take a long time to discover the truth?That we should stay with the one who adds us and not with whom we think it complements us, they can even be stubborn, hiding in a relationship that is not what makes you happy. , but that goes so far that it would be bad for society to leave it so suddenly (especially if it is a woman).
But, as Joseph Campbell says, “we must leave the life we had planned to have the one that awaits us. “Well, we have to give up the kind of love we’re told to be right, what seems like the best, the most correct: for those who expect us, what we choose and what makes us happy.
If we want something and we have old thought patterns that chain us to different people and places, we can and must go through a phase of cleanliness and loneliness.
Should we change our expectations of love and feel it in us without any evidence or event, that is, whatever the conditions?It’s unconditional love.