Have you ever stopped to think about the power of words?Did you stop to discuss what you said during that discussion?Words can caress or hurt the soul in seconds.
Imagine that someone repeatedly tells a child or yourself that you are useless. This person can be your mother, father, friend or group of people over time. The burden may be unfair or exaggerated, but with repetition, your unconscious believes these words. until he feels really useless and also feels anger, depression and resignation.
- We begin to believe that we are not able to do the right thing.
- Because our mind will unconsciously activate the automatic message.
- Recorded by repetition.
We can enter a vicious circle: we believe that we are useless and act as such. Therefore, the initial load becomes true.
Not everyone identifies with the negative statements that have been made to them. They may feel irritated, offended and disappointed, but they do not accept this negative programming. Responses and interpretations differ from person to person, the bottom line is that words are very important when communicating with someone, either formally or informally. Watch your discussions; in those moments, we talk without thinking about the consequences.
Some words can go unnoticed, but others can leave traces for life. The word can be both a tool that helps us to be understood and a weapon that hurts people.
Try this experiment: grab a sheet of paper, love it well, press, bend or form a ball, everyone can do it their own way. Then try to leave it as it was before.
You can? It is difficult right?
It is impossible to soften this paper and leave it in the state in which we found it. There’s a lot of marks left.
People’s hearts are like this, when we hurt him with our actions and words, it is difficult to erase the impression he left on him, sometimes by impulse, we say words of hatred and resentment, when we think about it and repent, it is too late There is nothing else that can be done.
Everything could be different if we thought before we spoke
Learn to be understanding and patient.
Someone once said, “Speak when your words are as kind as silence. “