True love arises from the confrontation between two similar souls who meet and take root thanks to two mature and conscious spirits, who respect each other, who love each other freely, but who choose to walk together, so trust and be not afraid. , do not behead fears and worries in your heart because the truth persists, we take care of the beautiful and we do not have to suffer.
We know that today many people cannot believe this idea of love for the disappointments they suffered when they were deceived, but what they least trust is the word “Sustainability”. How do we do that? We live in the age of programmed obsolescence, almost everything has an expiration date, philosophical currents such as that of Zygmunt Bauman, father of liquid modernity, or that of the ever-contested Slavoj Zizek, who brings us his social desicncant acid, illustrate a reality where nothing lasts, where everything that transcends has little positive.
- “To love is not to look at yourself.
- It is to look together in the same direction.
- “-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry-.
So in this present where most deal with social discontent and where changes are always frequent?How can we believe that there are still truly sustainable dimensions?, How can we believe in strong feelings, eternal love, relationships that never give up?
Sir Francis Bacon said that everyone is willing to believe what they would like to be true, therefore, to build something true, a fulfilling, happy and lasting relationship, we must not only trust in love, but also believe in the individual, investing effort, time and affection in this special person, this beloved. For what you love, you take care of; and what we’re dealing with is more likely to last.
Loving in times of crisis is not easy. It is not when there are economic difficulties, when Generation Y, for example, lacks the means and resources to become independent, to create a stable relationship project that has reasonable expectations for the future, nor is it easy for those who, hit by unemployment, to immerse themselves in a period of crisis, in a phase of uncertainty and anguish that impacts the image of themselves , which directly attacks your life project and affects your own personal development. Dimensions that influence this relationship rich in nuances.
True love is one who has learned to walk freely on the tightrope. Because life is not easy, we know, but good quality love, the 24-karat, knows how to maintain balance despite the onslating of life, despite the external and, above all, internal crises. These crises in which one doubts oneself end up, in which hope and convictions are lost and self-esteem is diluted?
A good couple, the conscious lover and the exceptional person know how to be our center, how to be our Syrian star, the brightest in the night sky, those who guide us home?
Because, let’s face it, we don’t care that neuroscience explains that love is the simple result of three ingredients: dopamine, oxytocin and norepinephrine, we don’t care because neurobiological reality doesn’t diminish magic or feel it at all. .
Stephen Hawking once said that love is much more complicated than physics, and sometimes we spend so much time looking up at the sky that we forget that the most precious thing in our lives is on Earth. In any case, sometimes we do that, we are reckless even knowing that the feeling is true and that the person is chosen, but the reason for behaving like this is complex, multifaceted and sometimes incomprehensible to the right.
“Love is not just to love, is it first of all to understand?Francoise Sagan?
Love is strange, that’s for sure, but as Haruki Murakami said in “Blind Sauce, Sleeping Woman,” something like this rarely happens. Situations where you encounter someone with whom to demonstrate exactly your mood with whom it is possible to communicate perfectly and it is an unexpected opportunity that not everyone can take advantage of.
So if this happens in our lives and we can live this wonderful opportunity, why not get it right?Why not put your feet on the ground, your heart in the center, and your mind at the level of vibration of maturity and responsibility?
It is certainly worth it because everyone who has seen us when we were invisible to others deserves everything we can give, because whoever prefers you without needing you will take care of you as you deserve, simmering, with a live flame and with patience. , letting your time and happiness make this love lasting.