Have you seen this movie? Vicky Cristina Barcelona, a feature film directed by Woody Allen, tells the love affairs of two friends who arrive in Barcelona and meet a bohemian and romantic artist named Juan Antonio, and from that moment they are immersed in a love triangle, from which it will be very difficult to get out.
The central theme of this film has stirred up all sorts of very disparate controversies and opinions: is it really possible to love two people at the same time?The clichés and traditions of this society in which we live affirm the exact opposite. a couple to sympathize with, can we marry, have children and be together?Until death do us part, as the sacrament of marriage says well.
- However.
- As we live in a world increasingly free of all kinds of taboos and stereotypes.
- More and more couples are appearing and have absolutely no problem admitting that they have sporadic relationships with other people besides their partner.
- We were able to love two people at the same time.
- Always with the approval of the other party.
Does this mean we’re all capable of handling this situation?Nothing further from reality. As is normal, many of us understand that couples are something between two people and we do not accept that third parties can love or be loved by our boyfriend, husband, wife etc.
Imagine for a moment that you’ve been with your partner for ten years and that you feel like you both love each other very much, but perhaps not as much as the first day, time passes and the relationship becomes an increasingly tedious routine. gets worse when, all of a sudden, a person we’re attracted to crosses our path.
I emphasize dating because I’m not saying we fall in love, but we just feel a really intense physical attraction.
Therefore, it is said that it is quite normal, after all, we are all people, who feel and have sexual instincts at hand, so it is not surprising that we are attracted to other people, however, this simple attraction should not be confused with passion.
Despite this initial attraction among these people, many begin to get to know each other even more and realize that they sympathize and were in fact made for each other (although they are engaged). I won’t judge who’s doing this. In fact, couples almost always tend to separate because third parties appear that inadvertently cause the other to reconfigure the relationship with their regular partner.
It’s perfectly normal. Love is not for life, depending on the person we meet, you just have to live in the present and, when you think the relationship has no future (something that needs to be analyzed very well), you have to have enough dignity to deal with the situation and tell your partner that you no longer want to be with him/her.
For our own happiness, and also for the person we have always loved, in this way we can be happy (or not) in our new loving walk.
How about you? Do you think it is possible to fall in love with two people at the same time?