“What will they think of me if I explain how I really feel,” “I hope you don’t ask me anything, you wouldn’t have to answer in front of everyone?Or “I can’t talk to a big audience, am I very nervous?”. These are very common expressions of those who are ashamed to be a life partner. […]
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Stress, lack of time, responsibilities, guilt, opinions of others?These are probably some of the reasons why many women consider themselves terrible mothers. This is what we call “Mom Shaming”. Writer Jill Churchill said, “There’s no way to be a perfect mother, but there are a million ways to be a good mother. “However, some women
Recently, a renowned American psychoanalyst proposed 4 types of shame that he sees fundamental, and considering that today people are better prepared to talk about what embarrasses them, he explains how he believes that each of these variants can affect us. In his recently published book, Burgo (2018) presents four paradigms to study this feeling,
If you are ashamed of your family it may be because there are unsolved advice or difficulties, taking into account that most conflicts with our family occur in adolescence, it is here when we look at it with a critical and relentless gaze, we want to differentiate ourselves and differentiate ourselves . Therefore, we highlight
Sometimes we think that shame and shyness are the same, we talk, for example, about overcoming the shame of speaking in public or expressing an opinion in a daily and informal conversation, but shame is much more than shyness. Above all, it is a feeling of personal indignity, it is a certain conviction that the
