When we leave our self-esteem abandoned in the hands of others, or those who like to control us and wield power over us, we tend to immerse ourselves in an endless quest to believe that we have regained it. we are one of the many ways we don’t love each other.
True love, both for others and for ourselves, is nothing more than the inevitable desire to help us and help us show our authenticity, to persecute those who hurt us is a way of not finding ourselves, but of finding ourselves at all costs, somehow forgetting us. oneself.
- When we are in a relationship and realize that.
- Being able to avoid suffering.
- The other person does not do that.
- Is that a clear indicator that he is not taking care of us as he should?The thing is.
- Sometimes we’re so blind that we don’t see how other people can manipulate us and take advantage of us for their own benefit.
If your love partner makes you feel guilty and can’t respect him, you’d better keep your distance with him.
When love really exists, taking care of our partner is an intrinsic contract of the heart, so if we notice that our partner hurts us as a way to maintain the relationship, this is the right time to stop it, because only we can do it.
When the person with which we share life makes us feel bad more often than he does us good, we must ask ourselves whether that person is adding or subtracting us, with this answer we will know if we want to share the rest of our lives in this way.
Closing a stage of life, saying goodbye to those you love, despite the pain, is one of the most cyclical experiences that can occur in the world of emotions, we already know that the hardest thing is not the first kiss, but the last. However, sometimes this last kiss can save us from many more bitter ones.
When our partner constantly hurts us, the lack of self-esteem can eventually lead us to the bottom of the well, so we will no longer be able to differentiate between who we are and the damage they have done to us. she herself can stop this emotional pain because, when she starts hurting us, there is no other path than self-love.
It’s crazy to love someone who hurts you, but it’s even crazier to think that someone who hurts you loves you.
Any relationship can end badly; We have to be aware of that, the only way to overcome the end is to accept it, otherwise it will be much more difficult to control the situation and the damage will eventually become obsession, fear, hope and even devotion.
Some psychologists say that an ending can be more painful than someone’s death, according to this theory death has a process of pain that ends with acceptance, on the other hand, when the couple ends and there is no such acceptance, suffering can last. long time and even never heal.
Doesn’t love hurt? It hurts who can’t love
Obsessions, overwhelming fear of loneliness and devotion are definitely feelings that contain a little contempt for the person and exaltation of the beloved, as an example we leave here this poem by Hamlet Lima Quintana to reflect:
“No one has the face of my beloved. A face where birds hand out morning chores. No one has the hands of my beloved. Hands that warm up in the sun when they caress the poor of my life. No one has the eyes of my beloved. Eyes where fish swim freely, forgetting the hook and drought, forgetting that I wait for them as the old fisherman of hope. No one has the voice my beloved speaks to. A voice that doesn’t even touch words as if it were a permanent song. No one has the light around her or the absence of the sun when she shakes. Sometimes I think no one has, no one, all that, not even herself?.