Cowardice ages older than the years on facial wrinkles. Dreams interrupted by a lack of decision weigh more than a century inscribed on a look or mouth that you loved when you saw the opportunity. For those who haven’t taken the risk when they could out of fear. or pride feels a void in his soul, a thorn in his heart.
We’re certainly talking about lost hope. One curious thing they repeat a lot is that trains pass every day for those who know how to wait?Or ‘opportunities go to those who look for them again’. But we must also be aware that there are certain things for which there is no second. Opportunity.
- Cowardice.
- Lack of values or fear are heavy factors that put ropes on our feet and chains in our minds.
- However.
- Before you repent of everything you haven’t experienced out of indecision.
- We must see our chronology differently.
- Or in the end.
- There is something continuing with the new beginnings that need to be integrated with appropriate psychological approaches.
We invite you to discover these approaches with us in this text
Maybe it was cowardice. Pride may have blinded us too much to this love, and now we have only will, sadness, and repentance. It may be fear. A deep fear of getting out of our roots, of crossing our personal borders to undertake new projects, new lives that would have given us more happiness Who knows?
However, before falling into a situation of obsessive melancholy of “what would my life have been like?”, it is necessary to restructure this approach more inclusively. Lost train syndrome is something we have all suffered or will suffer at some point in our lives, however, we must take into account that these mental models and emotional derivations rooted in the past irretrievably condition the quality of our present.
An interesting article published in it? American Journal of Psychology, called “Nostalgia: Withdrawal or Support in Difficult Times,” explains that past events, disappointments, or trains we lack from lack of decision-making act in many people as “subconscious forms. “, put walls in our present and irrevocably condition our future.
Isn’t that right, do we have to move forward with certainty and wisdom?
Peter Senge is a well-known economist, educator and professor at Stanford University, best known for his system theories and for a more humane and flexible perspective of organizations. Although his work is business-oriented, his theories are equally enlightening and wonderful if applied in the field of personal development.
Dr. Senge proposes the following: to stop seeing our life as a straight line, to see in this way means to drag the past into the present and even to project it into the future, of course, we are everything we live, everything it has. it happened and even everything we suffered, however, sometimes it is enough to change a small detail of thought to see and feel things differently.
To finish a cycle and move forward more integrity, we must “close the circles”. And it is in this circle of the past that cowardice, fear, interrupted dreams must remain to create another. Every stage of our lives must be a new one, and a stronger circle where we can use what we learn. We will explain in more detail below.
We continue to maintain the image of something continuous, it is only now that the straight line is formed by circles, and in each of them there is a stage of our existence, it is like a chain, like a jewel full of gems of different colors. .
Cowardice has disappeared forever in these circles of the past, now you are a new person who has allowed himself to grow up, who feels good about himself and who, believe it or not, continues to move, continues to become something wonderful when he wants. and it can be worth a try!