There are those who still think that hugging their children too much, showing them continued affection and affection will form evil children, that we will make them ungovernable little tyrants.
Maybe that’s why we still hear phrases like “it’s better to get rid of them as soon as possible,” or that answering them at night when they’re crying is a mistake, and it’s best to let them calm down on their own. We have to be very careful with these popular beliefs, which sometimes don’t usually have much wisdom.
- What is the main cause of “professional misconduct”?of a child is actually ina attention.
- Lack of concern or even comfort.
- Using.
- For example.
- Offering our cell phone to a 2-year-old to calm down and have a little fun while we take care of other things.
- Providing care.
- Care and love to our children will never make them bad.
We all know that there are demanding children who are in high demand, want attention, recognition, words and constantly defy our limits, believe it or not, affection will remain our key tool. We’ll use smart love.
We know that educating isn’t easy. That each child has a set of needs and that the same advice is not even for two brothers.
Not educating rude children depends on providing ‘smart and quality care’, so these points need to be taken into account:
Children, especially in early childhood, need a bond with their parents to develop a secure bond with this first social context that is the family.
A secure attachment means we will always react in the same way. A baby, when he cries, needs to be cared for, a child when he asks a question waits for an answer.
If we do not answer, if we do not answer your questions, the child will try to get our attention in a thousand ways, our children need constant habits and a firm and constructive attachment where they feel safe to discover the world. , will move forward more independently.
To love someone is to worry about someone, in this case our children, and to worry and invest time in our children will never make them bad.
“Are you going to kill me in disgust?” Stand up because otherwise I’ll stop loving you, “If you do this, all the kids will laugh at you?This kind of emotional blackmail is a bad strategy.
When we give them a responsibility and give them a little more freedom, we don’t spoil them, we help them grow and take on new roles, new challenges.