Our self-esteem depends on how we see ourselves, how we value ourselves, our perceptions and beliefs about who we are, and what we are able to do. Self-esteem, however, has little to do with our true talent or skills, but it is the cornerstone on which we can build any personal achievement.
People with low self-esteem or poor self-image and skills will think, “Win”!For what?!?. Others will be trapped to the point where they will feel unable to take additional action, blaming their situation or context, but we must all know that overcoming is always possible.
- Only by knowing ourselves and exploring our talents can we begin to realize our full potential.
- But this potential that hopes to come out can be suppressed by the lack of security itself.
- By low self-esteem.
In the process of exploiting our talents, however, we have no choice but to face the worst of all our fears: ourselves, the only place where our boundaries are built, our past, our wounds and our way of being. We have as to whether we will succeed, whether we will be able to do anything, or whether all the weight we carry in our emotional backpack will prevent us from moving forward, there is only within us.
Only by daring to be yourself, accepting yourself as you are and loving you unconditionally will it be possible to start healing your self-esteem and, therefore, to create the conditions to awaken your full potential.
Good self-esteem means being aware of our strengths and weaknesses, accepting both is what allows us to love ourselves, even what makes us love others, everything we carry in us is part of ourselves, recognizing our weaknesses gives us the strength to overcome Not recognizing us, on the other hand, makes us vulnerable.
Making peace with oneself frees us from self-imposed or self-imposed limitations that arise from others, but which we accept for ourselves. Making peace with yourself means accepting your weaknesses and relying on them to take the first step toward self-improvement.
No one is a ticket of 100 kings to please everyone, trying to satisfy everyone is a completely useless task, especially if we forget that the first to be proud of everything we do is ourselves, no matter how much others say and opin, all follow our own path. Your way, your life, is your business. What others think of you is their problem.
It is not easy to overcome the fear of the gaze of society, the fear of being rejected, to what they will say, to all the obstacles that this may put in the way, but what others say and say has only the power that we. allow them to have.
Look inside and choose who you want to satisfy: the audience or the actor, when you do this, keep in mind that your life is not a play with a plot determined by a writer who seeks to satisfy the audience that pays for entry. pay the entrance fee.
Keep in mind that many people will only see a version of you that is limited, no one better than you can know the reasons, goals and efforts there, let’s not forget that many people don’t have the best intentions, many have them, for example, envy, that turns people with low self-esteem or mediocre values into creem beings who only care about their success and measure it in how much they are above others , even if it means outperforming many people.
Don’t let that get to you. To overcome oneself is also to go beyond the gaze of others, to see ourselves as we are and how we want to be.